Abstract
Forty women who had been in abusive adult, intimate relationships with other women were interviewed. Their life experiences leading up to these abusive relationships were qualitatively examined to determine how heterosexism created a social context in which women were left vulnerable to abuse and dependent on their abusers. Childhood abuse, negative coming out experiences, lack of a queer community, and substance/alcohol abuse contributed to survivors’ vulnerability to abuse by making them socially isolated from a support system and dependent on their partners to reconstruct a sense of family.
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Women who are intimately involved with other women may identify as bisexual, lesbian, queer, heterosexual, or choose more specific terms (butch, femme, etc.), while some may prefer to eschew a sexual identity completely. While “there is no generally acceptable definition of queer; indeed, many of the common understandings contradict each other irresolvably” (Jagose 1996, p. 99), I use the term “queer” as an umbrella term to speak about the women in this study as a whole and all non-heterosexuals in general. I use the term with the goal of being more inclusive of all sexual identities (see Girshick 2002).
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The author would like to thank Drs. Joanne Belknap, Hillary Potter, Celeste Montoya-Kirk, Matthew C. Brown, and Bronwen Lichtenstein for their guidance with this project, and the reviewers for their insightful comments and suggestions.
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McDonald, C. The Social Context of Woman-to-Woman Intimate Partner Abuse (WWIPA). J Fam Viol 27, 635–645 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-012-9455-z
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