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How Do Relationships Support Parenting? Effects of Attachment Style and Social Support on Parenting Behavior in an At-Risk Population

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The importance of supportive relationships for new parents has been the focus of both research and parenting interventions. Attachment style, typically viewed as a relatively stable trait reflecting one’s comfort in social relationships, as well as social support, or one’s perception of the social context, have both been found to be important for fostering engaged, involved parenting. Less is known, however, about how these variables work together to influence parenting behavior, especially in families at higher risk for negative child outcomes. Data were collected from 152 urban, predominantly African American, low-income parents when their children were 14 and 36 months of age. Results suggest that parents with more social support show greater increases in the frequency of positive parent–child activities over time, but that this effect is mediated by mothers’ attachment style, specifically, their level of anxious/ambivalent attachment. Mothers with more social support tended to be less anxious/ambivalent about close relationships, and this in turn led to increases over time in the frequency of parent–child interactions. Mothers’ tendency to avoid close relationships, however, while correlated with social support, was unrelated to changes in parenting behavior. Implications of these findings for program development, parenting, and the malleability of attachment style based on social context are discussed.

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  1. Treatment effects were not expected at the 14-month assessment, since many parents had only received a few months of service (average length of service at 14 months was about 5 months). It was also not entirely surprising that treatment effects were not seen for the dependent variable of parent–child activities at 36 months, for several reasons. First, there were considerable difficulties in implementing the EHS program during the first 2 years at this site, as they struggled to adapt to Head Start program guidelines. The EHS National Study (Love et al. 2002) found that program effects for the national study were significantly more positive for those sites that demonstrated early and full implementation. Further, concurrent ethnographic work at this site suggests that there were numerous instances of “spillover” of treatment from the program group to comparison group participants that occurred (McAllister et al. 2004) because of the program’s strong emphasis on community development and involvement.

  2. Models were also analyzed without covariates; results were the same.

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This research was supported by a grant from the U. S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children, Youth and Families, Head Start Bureau. We want to thank our data collection staff, and the staff and parents at Family Foundations for their contributions. Thanks also to Jason Newsom and to two anonymous reviewers for their helpful comments on earlier versions of this manuscript.

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Green, B.L., Furrer, C. & McAllister, C. How Do Relationships Support Parenting? Effects of Attachment Style and Social Support on Parenting Behavior in an At-Risk Population. Am J Community Psychol 40, 96–108 (2007). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10464-007-9127-y

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