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Jugendhilfeempfänger streben nach einem eigenständigen, selbstbestimmten Leben. Der Beitrag diskutiert, inwieweit eine Organisation wie der Careleaver e.V. dazu beitragen kann.
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1 As children, we start off at the center of our own universe, where we interpret everything that happens from an egocentric vantage point. If our parents or grandparents keep telling us we‘re the cutest, most delicious thing in the world, we don‘t question their judgment - we must be exactly that. And deep down, no matter what else we learn about ourselves, we will carry that sense with us: that we are basically adorable. As a result, if we later hook up with somebody who treats us badly, we will be outraged. It won‘t feel right: It‘s not familiar; it‘s not like home. But if we are abused or ignored in childhood, or grow up in a family where sexuality is treated with disgust, our inner map contains a different message. Our sense of our self is marked by contempt and humiliation, and we are more likely to think „he (or she) has my number“ and fail to protest if we are mistreated. (van der Kolk 2014, S. 129–130)
2 Für eine intensivere Auseinandersetzung mit dem Bindungsverhalten misshandelter Kinder vergleiche: Foster children‘s views of their birth parents. Baker et al. 2016
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Doll, A. Raus aus den Hilfen zur Erziehung und rein in ein selbstbestimmtes Leben!. Sozial Extra 41, 30–33 (2017). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12054-017-0031-x
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