Incest taboos vary enormously across time and place, and there is no specific prohibition found in all societies. Even the taboo on sibling sex is far from being universal. Many traditional societies simply lacked norms concerning sibling incest (Thornhill 1991). For at least two-and-a-half centuries in Roman Egypt there seems to have been a positive preference for sibling marriage among commoners (Hopkins 1980). For one-and-a-half millennia Zoroastrians practiced sibling as well as parent–child marriage with strong encouragement from their religious authorities (Scheidel 1996). Some cultures that did have sibling incest taboos nevertheless made exceptions for the ruling families (Middleton 1962).
Any society’s norms governing sex will be shaped by a panoply of historical, sociological, and evolutionary forces, all of which interact with human biological dispositions. There is almost certainly no single explanation of the sibling incest taboo that fully explains every instance of it. But it may be possible to identify factors that contributed to the development or persistence of the taboo in many cultures.
Theories of incest taboos can be divided into two general categories: intentional and selectionist. According to intentional theories—which can also be described as sociological—taboos were (consciously or unconsciously) designed by people to serve some (perceived) function. According to selectionist theories, taboos are the direct or indirect product of natural selection. That is, natural selection could (directly) favor individuals or groups with adaptive taboos, or it could (indirectly) endow people with adaptions from which taboos emerge as a byproduct. (Westermarck’s hypothesis is selectionist, with natural selection producing the taboo indirectly via the Westermarck effect.) Again, different combinations of forces may shape the incest taboos of different societies. Natural selection always plays some role in cultural evolution by default because all cultural innovations are subject to natural selection. Regardless of how cultural practices originate, individuals or groups with more adaptive variants tend to proliferate.
Sex and marriage taboos may have profound implications for group functioning and adaptedness. Many social scientists in the twentieth century believed that, without the nuclear family incest taboo forcing people to make alliances outside the family unit, distinctively human society would be impossible. Lévi-Strauss (1956: 278), for example, declared:
it will never be sufficiently emphasized that, if social organization had a beginning, this could only have consisted in the [nuclear family] incest prohibition….It is there, and only there, that we find a passage from nature to culture, from animal to human life, and that we are in a position to understand the very essence of their articulation.
The fact that sibling and parent–child incest taboos are not universal casts doubt on the claim that they are the distinguishing features of human social life, but it is true that forced exogamy can foster interfamilial cooperation. Sex and marriage taboos can have other effects that influence group adaptedness in ways that could not be foreseen by any human designer. Schulz et al. (2019) argue that the Catholic Church’s ban on cousin marriage triggered a cascade of cultural changes that made Westerners more individualistic, independent, and impersonally prosocial and less conformist and loyal to their ingroup. The taboo on sibling sex and marriage may have conferred advantages to groups that adopted it, which help account for its spread.
This section considers two promising sociological theories of incest taboos: they were established (a) to maintain social cohesion within family units or (b) in response to recognition of the dangers of inbreeding. The social cohesion theory turns out to be subject to versions of the representation and moralization problems, and probably does not explain the origin of the nuclear family incest taboo, though it may help explain its persistence. The recognition hypothesis is not subject to the representation and moralization problems, and it is supported by some suggestive evidence.
The social cohesion hypothesis
According to Shor and Simchai (2009), people in small and highly cohesive “nonvoluntary groups” will suppress their sexual attraction to each other and/or establish norms against ingroup sexual relations. People do this because they are aware that ingroup sexual relationships will threaten the group’s unity and “may even lead to its dissolution” (1814). People also fear the potential awkwardness that would ensue if they are rebuffed by, or have a failed romantic relationship with, someone with whom they must continue living in close contact. In Shor and Simchai’s words:
when the institutional frame (be it family or any other small nonvoluntary group) is greatly cohesive and associations are dense, individuals identify the social and personal price of intimate dyadic relationships in terms of both group cohesiveness and potential embarrassment. Under such conditions, any expression of sexual emotions or drives may be consciously or unconsciously suppressed. (1814)
They marshal evidence for this theory from an unlikely source, namely, the same kibbutzim that are usually held up as supporting Westermarck. Proponents of Westermarck claim that coreared kibbutzniks felt sexual aversion toward each other in the absence of a taboo on intra-peer-group sex (Shepher 1971, 1983). Shor and Simchai found evidence that this is doubly wrong. Careful interviews with former kibbutzniks revealed that they did not typically feel sexual aversion toward childhood coresidents, and in many kibbutzim there was a taboo on intra-peer-group sex. Most of Shor and Simchai’s interviewees felt attraction to at least one of their childhood coresidents: 33.3% reported “strong” and 20% reported “moderate” sexual attraction toward at least one peer-group member (1822). Slightly less than half reported sexual indifference, and almost no one reported sexual aversion. Many interviewees said that their peer group had norms against forming intragroup romantic relationships, and some said that they avoided making romantic overtures for fear of embarrassment. Kibbutzniks who described their peer group as being relatively cohesive were considerably more likely to report feeling sexual indifference toward their peers.
Shor and Simchai’s claim that being part of a cohesive, nonvoluntary group leads at most to sexual indifference raises the question of why people typically feel sexual aversion toward their nuclear family members. They offer two possible answers. First, the sexual indifference we feel toward close family members in virtue of belonging to a cohesive, nonvoluntary group is reinforced by a strong cultural taboo, which turns the indifference into an aversion. Second, intrafamilial attraction may be more common than we usually think: “despite this powerful taboo, studies have found considerable rates of incest inside nuclear families, in America and elsewhere, including between siblings” (1833). The second suggestion is questionable in light of the evidence that a large proportion of people—including Shor and Simchai’s own interviewees—report genuine aversion toward first- and third-party incest.
Shor and Simchai seem to have identified a real phenomenon, namely, people sometimes supress sexual attraction and/or establish norms against intragroup sex for the (more or less explicit) purpose of preserving group cohesion. But as an explanation for the incest taboo, this theory faces its own version of the representation and moralization problems. If I suppress my incestuous attractions to avoid damaging my close relationships with my family members, why should I support a rule prohibiting specifically incestuous attractions? That is to say, the content of my inhibition is avoid sex with fellow members of a cohesive, nonvoluntary group, but the content of the taboo is avoid sex with close family members (whether or not they are part of a cohesive, nonvoluntary group). And why should I care what other people do? Maybe I have a reason to want my own family members to suppress their attraction to me, but there is no reason to be concerned with the desires of third parties.
Even if Shor and Simchai’s social cohesion hypothesis does not account for the origin of the sibling incest taboo, it may help explain the power and resilience of the taboo. Many nuclear families are relatively cohesive, nonvoluntary groups, and our tendency to suppress sexual attraction within such groups may reinforce incest taboos.
The recognition hypothesis
According to the recognition hypothesis, people recognized the link between inbreeding and birth defects. In hunter–gatherer and other small-scale societies, the birth of physically or mentally disabled people could burden the entire group. People had clear reasons to oppose third-party sexual behavior likely to produce offspring who would never become effective workers or warriors. After incest prohibitions were established, many societies—including Western societies—forgot their original purpose.
Burton (1973) was the first person to argue that incest prohibitions were established in response to conscious recognition of the dangers of inbreeding. He reported his impression, based on a “cross-cultural study of resistance to temptation,” that “the most common reason given in both primitive and modern societies for the incest taboo is that it produces bad stock” (504–505).
In a more systematic study, Durham (1991: 347–348) found evidence for fairly widespread recognition of the dangers of inbreeding. He investigated the “consequences of [incest] taboo violations, real or hypothetical,” according to people in 60 cultures. In 40 of the cultures, people reported that some negative socially or divinely imposed consequence would follow from incest. In 29, people reported that incest was punished by a social sanction, “most commonly death.” In 16, “there was mention of a supernatural sanction, most commonly disease or death” (347). (In five cultures people who engaged in incest were subject to social sanctions and were considered liable for supernatural punishment.) Most important, in 20 of these societies—i.e., one-half of those that reported some sort of negative consequence for incest—Durham found references to a “‘bad stock’ argument.” For several more of these societies there was ambiguous evidence, or evidence from other ethnographic databases, that they recognized the negative consequences of inbreeding for offspring. Durham also notes that there was a correlation between the richness of the ethnographic data for a given society and the chance that he could find evidence of a folk theory about incest producing disabled offspring (348–349, n. 56). Thus, 20 out of 60 is likely an underestimate of the proportion of societies that achieved and preserved awareness of the negative effects of inbreeding.
Durham (1991) made another discovery that he sees as supporting the recognition hypothesis: incest rules in different societies reflect the relative dangers of inbreeding. The risk that close inbreeding will produce disabled offspring varies among populations. Large, exogamous populations tend to accumulate more deleterious recessive alleles. Because reproductive partners are, on average, distantly related to each other, the partners are less likely to have inherited the same deleterious mutations. Consequently, the mutations are less likely to be weeded out through the production of nonviable homozygotes. This makes inbreeding relatively dangerous. In contrast, reproductive partners in small, endogamous populations must be relatively closely related. In these populations, deleterious recessive alleles will be more quickly weeded out, making inbreeding less dangerous. The data analyzed by Durham suggest that “small endogamous populations do seem to have less extensive incest taboos than do their exogamous counterparts” (356). He suggests that taboos were tailored to the relative risks of inbreeding in different societies by human design. However, the data might also be explained as a consequence of natural selection favoring groups with locally adaptive taboos.
What about the sibling incest taboo in Western societies? The feeling of visceral disgust that incest arouses (Royzman et al. 2008) is not typically bound up—at least not consciously—with awareness of any negative consequences for offspring. In fact, until the 1960s there was a near scientific consensus in the West that inbreeding does not pose any dangers (Wolf 2004b: 1–3).Footnote 3 Now that the risks of inbreeding are widely known, people do often cite this as a reason to oppose incest, though they frequently cite psychological harm to the participants, and many say that incest is wrong in principle regardless of the consequences (Royzman et al. 2015). It is possible that our predecessors established the sibling incest taboo in response to recognition of the dangers of close inbreeding, and we retained the taboo after (temporarily) forgetting its original purpose.
There is evidence that this is exactly what happened with the taboo on cousin sex. Marriage between first cousins is perfectly accepted—if not encouraged—in many cultures, and used to be common in the West. In the late sixth century, Pope Gregory I claimed that it was prohibited because of the consequences for offspring:
A certain secular law in the Roman State allows that the son or daughter of a brother and sister, or of two brothers or two sisters may be married. But we have learned from experience that the offspring of such marriages cannot thrive. Sacred law forbids a man to uncover the nakedness of his kindred. Hence it is necessary that the faithful should only marry relations [at least] three or four times removed. (quoted in Durham 1991: 331)
Theoretically, the same thing could have happened with the sibling incest taboo. Alternatively, self-interest may have been the true reason for the Catholic Church’s ban on cousin marriage. In the fourth century the Church established a number of laws—including prohibitions on adoption, polygyny, and cousin marriage—that increased the likelihood of people dying without heirs, in which case their property was inherited by the Church (Goody 1983; Prinz 2007: 231–232). In any case, the fact that Westerners continue to taboo sex and marriage between first cousins suggests that taboos can persist and continue to elicit emotional commitment long after their original purpose has been forgotten. Cultural evolution is often conservative, and for good reason. It is usually adaptive for people to accept the beliefs, values, and practices that they inherit unless they have a compelling reason to reject them (Henrich 2016). And, as Buchanan and Powell (2018: 251–252) observe, the elements of a culture are interconnected. Norms—particularly those that “implicate group identity or moral identity”—may become “culturally entrenched,” since they “occupy a central, highly connected position in the cultural web.” It may be possible for culturally entrenched taboos to be transmitted down the generations even if the original justification is forgotten.
According to the recognition hypothesis, people in the distant past noticed that sexual relations between those with certain biological relationships—including siblings—tended to lead to negative consequences for offspring. There is no representation problem for this theory. If sex between childhood coresidents who were not siblings led to negative consequences, then people would likely have noticed this and established a taboo to keep childhood coresidents apart. But our biology does not work that way, so childhood coresident never became an especially important social category.