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Effects of Attractiveness and Status in Dating Desire in Homosexual and Heterosexual Men and Women

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Abstract

The present study examined partner preferences of homosexual and heterosexual men and woman, focusing on attractiveness and status. Homosexual (N = 591 men; M age = 28.87 years, SD = 10.21; N = 249 women; M age = 33.36 years, SD = 13.12) and heterosexual participants (N = 346 men; M age = 39.74 years, SD = 14.26; N = 400 women; M age = 35.93 years, SD = 13.72) rated the importance of attractiveness and social status of potential partners and then, in a vignette test, expressed their desire to date hypothetical potential partners based on photographs that varied in attractiveness and status-related profiles. With ratings, heterosexual men valued attractiveness the most, followed by homosexual men, heterosexual women, and homosexual women. Heterosexual women rated social status as most important. When status profiles were manipulated and accompanied with photographs of faces, the pattern of differences between homosexuals and heterosexuals supported the self-reported results. Overall, homosexual men and women have similar mate preferences to heterosexual men and women by showing more dating desire for attractive and high social status persons. Compared to attractiveness, status played a smaller role in dating desire.

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  1. The total list of partner characteristics were: reliable, honest, kind, interesting personality, sense of humor, intelligence, caring, good health, flexible, can get along with friends, attractive appearance, romantic, ambition, creative, easy-going, finished education, good family background, high salary, relationship experience, wants to have children in future, and religion.

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Thao Ha was supported by a Mozaiek grant from the Netherlands Organisation for Scientific Research during the preparation of this article.

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    Thao Ha, Judith E. M. van den Berg, Rutger C. M. E. Engels & Anna Lichtwarck-Aschoff

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Appendix

Appendix

Vignettes to indicate high and low social status

Person with a high-status profile:

Name: Tom (female: Anne)

Gender: Male (or female)

Place: Utrecht

Education: University degree in medicine

Profession: Medical doctor

Gross salary: €7000 per month

Hobbies: Meeting with friends, going out

Favorite television programs: Network, Nova (these are shows for upper-class persons in the Netherlands)

Relationship: None

Male with a low-status profile:

Name: Tom (female: Anne)

Gender: Male (or female)

Place: Utrecht

Education: low-level educational degree

Profession: work on a conveyor belt

Gross salary: €1100 per month

Hobbies: Meeting with friends, going out

Favorite television programs: Hart van Nederland, Editie NL (these are shows for lower-class persons in the Netherlands)

Relationship: None

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Ha, T., van den Berg, J.E.M., Engels, R.C.M.E. et al. Effects of Attractiveness and Status in Dating Desire in Homosexual and Heterosexual Men and Women. Arch Sex Behav 41, 673–682 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-011-9855-9

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Keywords

  • Sexual orientation
  • Homosexuality
  • Heterosexuality
  • Mate preference
  • Attractiveness
  • Status