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Sexual identity: Conflict and confusion in a male adolescent

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This paper presents a conceptual formulation, derived from developmental object relations theory and ego psychology, of the passage in male adolescence that culminates with the achievement of a masculine heterosexual identity. Themes of psychosexuality, male gender attributes, masculinity and object preference, and sexual orientation are discussed with reference to the adolescent stage. Finally, the critical tasks, core conflicts, and internalizations of prior developmental stages, as well as the integration that is required of adolescence proper relative to a sexual identity as heterosexual and masculine, are highlighted through an extensive case illustration of an adolescent male with sexual identity confusion.

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a clinical social worker in private practive in Palatine, Illinois. The author gratefully acknowledges that the writing of this paper was supported by a research leave granted him by Loyola University Chicago.

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Lucente, R.L. Sexual identity: Conflict and confusion in a male adolescent. Child Adolesc Soc Work J 13, 97–114 (1996). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF01876640

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