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Meaning of touch: The case of touch from a stranger or same sex person

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Two hundred and eight respondents rated what it means to them if they are touched on various areas of their body by either a stranger or a close friend of the same or opposite sex. Male and female respondents agree that (a) touch from a close friend of the opposite sex is pleasant, and (b) touch from a same sex person is unpleasant. However, touch from an opposite-sex stranger, is considered to be unpleasant by women but quite pleasant by men. For women, the meaning of a touch is primarily influenced by how well they know the other person; for men, the meaning is primarily determined by the other person's sex. That the intrusiveness of touch depends on acquaintanceship supports the hypothesis that for psychological comfort the level of intimacy of a) nonverbal behavior and b) the social relationship of two people must be congruent.

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  1. the University of California, San Francisco

    Tuan D. Nguyen

  2. the Ph.D. program in the California School of Professional Psychology, Berkeley, California

    Michele L. Nguyen

  3. Department of Psychological Sciences, Purdue University, 47907, West Lafayette, IN

    Richard Heslin

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Heslin, R., Nguyen, T.D. & Nguyen, M.L. Meaning of touch: The case of touch from a stranger or same sex person. J Nonverbal Behav 7, 147–157 (1983). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00986945

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