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The degree of similarity of differentiation of self between partners in married and dating couples: Preliminary evidence

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Bowen's differentiation of self construct is examined through a test in two studies of the hypothesis that people select partners at similar levels of differentiation of self. One study used a sample of married couples and the other a sample of dating and engaged couples. The studies used different instruments for determining differentiation of self. Three data analysis procedures—correlations, t-tests, and the degree of similarity procedure—provided conflicting evidence for the similarity hypothesis. Results are discussed as they pertain to statistical analysis issues using related individuals and to Bowen family systems theory and the use of this theory in clinical practice.

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    Suzanne E. Bartle PhD (assistant professor in human relations and family development)

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Bartle, S.E. The degree of similarity of differentiation of self between partners in married and dating couples: Preliminary evidence. Contemp Fam Ther 15, 467–484 (1993). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00892293

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