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Brothers and Sisters

The Influence of Sibling Relationships on Young Children’s Development

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Enduring Bonds

Part of the book series: Educating the Young Child ((EDYC,volume 1))

Influences in contemporary society such as blended families created by remarriage, international adoptions, and reproductive technology have expanded the definition of sibling relationships. Bonds with brothers and sisters occur early and exert a profound effect on young children’s overall development. This chapter synthesizes the research on sibling relationships in early childhood, identifies four recurring themes, and offers research-based recommendations to early childhood educators and families.

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    Denise Dragich

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Jalongo, M.R., Dragich, D. (2008). Brothers and Sisters. In: Jalongo, M.R. (eds) Enduring Bonds. Educating the Young Child, vol 1. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-74525-1_5

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