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An Overview of Same-Sex Couples in Relation Ships: A Research Area Still at Sea

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Contemporary Perspectives on Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Identities

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I would like to thank Nanette Gartrell, Marcia Hill, and Anne Peplau for their helpful comments on an earlier draft of this chapter.

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Rothblum, E.D. (2009). An Overview of Same-Sex Couples in Relation Ships: A Research Area Still at Sea. In: Hope, D.A. (eds) Contemporary Perspectives on Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Identities. Nebraska Symposium on Motivation, vol 54. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-09556-1_5

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