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Assertiveness

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Encyclopedia of Personality and Individual Differences

Synonyms

Candid; Expressive; Forthright; Straightforward

Definition

Assertiveness involves appropriately expressing ideas, feelings, and boundaries while respecting other’s rights, maintaining positive affect in the receiver, and considering potential consequences of the expression. It includes both positive and negative expressions and seeks to achieve personal and/or instrumental goals.

Foundations of Assertiveness

Popular perceptions and actual assertiveness differ in kind and in degree (Ames 2009). Even though psychology has consistently maintained that assertiveness respects mutualrights and fosters positive affect, everyday perceptions of assertiveness tend to include even aggressive and relationship damaging expressions. Where assertiveness creates positive affect in the receiver, aggression is hostile, shows little respect for the other, and fails to consider potential consequences of the action. Where assertive personalities have high affection, inclusion, and pleasure...

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Pfafman, T. (2020). Assertiveness. In: Zeigler-Hill, V., Shackelford, T.K. (eds) Encyclopedia of Personality and Individual Differences. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-24612-3_1044

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