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Sibling rivalry is a type of competition among brothers and sisters, for the love, affection, and attention of one or both parents or for other recognition or gain.
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Sibling rivalry often starts right after the birth of the second child, and usually continues throughout childhood and can be very frustrating and stressful to parents. It has been found that feelings of rivalry diminish in adulthood [7].
Sibling rivalry is manifested in the form of verbal or physical aggression, frustration, persistent demands for attention, or as a regressive phenomenon. Older siblings may feel lonely when the younger sibling is born and may indirectly suggest that they do not like the existence of their newborn brother or sister. Others may display frustration or demand attention when the newborn is picked up or provided more attention. Some others may hit, kick, and punch their younger sibling....
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Gaitonde, S.P. (2011). Sibling Rivalry. In: Goldstein, S., Naglieri, J.A. (eds) Encyclopedia of Child Behavior and Development. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-79061-9_2641
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