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Parental attachment is associated with well-being in early emerging adulthood. The present study is the first to measure attachment from multiple perspectives by obtaining attachment ratings from both children and parents, allowing us to examine discrepancies between both attachments in the relationship and the association of those discrepancies with well-being. We used a large sample of 558 young emerging adults and 405 parents to assess self- and parent ratings of different facets of attachment and well-being. Using 15 structural equation models, we were able to show that security, trust, communication, and relatedness (but not dependency) are associated with the emerging adult’s subjective happiness, life satisfaction, and psychological flourishing. Moreover, psychological flourishing was higher for adult children whose parents were more attached to them than would be expected on basis of the child’s attachment.
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We are grateful to Jana Stein and Caterina Betz for their assistance in data collection and Esther Ulitzsch for creating graphs and providing valuable feedback on an earlier draft. We also thank Lisa Trierweiler for her writing support.
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The study was founded by Deutsche Forschungsgemeinschaft (Grand Number EI379/6-2) to Prof. Michael Eid.
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Bohn, J., Holtmann, J., Luhmann, M. et al. Attachment to Parents and Well-Being After High School Graduation: A Study Using Self- and Parent Ratings. J Happiness Stud 21, 2493–2525 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10902-019-00190-y
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