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Intimate partner violence (IPV) is a serious problem in both same-sex and heterosexual relationships. Although there are numerous similarities in the dynamics of IPV, gay men and lesbians experience unique stressors related to their sexual minority status. This preliminary, descriptive study examined the relationship among internalized homophobia, stigma consciousness, and openness to self-reported IPV victimization and perpetration. Among 581 men and lesbians, approximately one-quarter reported IPV victimization and almost 10% reported IPV perpetration. When demographic variables of age, sex of participant, and relationship status were controlled, victims of IPV reported greater expectations of prejudice and discrimination, yet were more open about their sexual orientation. Similarly, expectations of prejudice and discrimination were related to IPV perpetration. As researchers and counselors focus on understanding, and ultimately reducing, same-sex IPV, it is imperative that sexual minority stressors are considered.
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This research is based on Amana Carvalho’s doctoral dissertation under the supervision of Robin Lewis. Portions of this research were presented at the 2006 Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues (SPSSI) Biannual convention, the 2006 Virginia Psychological Association Spring convention, and at the 2011 American Psychological Association annual meeting.
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Carvalho, A.F., Lewis, R.J., Derlega, V.J. et al. Internalized Sexual Minority Stressors and Same-Sex Intimate Partner Violence. J Fam Viol 26, 501–509 (2011). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-011-9384-2
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