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Selection criteria in the search for a sperm donor: behavioural traits versus physical appearance

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Despite extensive literature on female mate choice, empirical evidence on women’s mating preferences in the search for a sperm donor is scarce, even though this search, by isolating a male’s genetic impact on offspring from other factors like paternal investment, offers a naturally ”controlled” research setting. In this paper, we work to fill this void by examining the rapidly growing online sperm donor market, which is raising new challenges by offering women novel ways to seek out donor sperm. We not only identify individual factors that influence women’s mating preferences but find strong support for the proposition that behavioural traits (inner values) are more important in these choices than physical appearance (exterior values). We also report evidence that physical factors matter more than resources or other external cues of material success, perhaps because the relevance of good character in donor selection is part of a female psychological adaptation throughout evolutionary history. The lack of evidence on a preference for material resources, on the other hand, may indicate the ability of peer socialization and better access to resources to rapidly shape the female decision process. Overall, the paper makes useful contributions to both the literature on human behaviour and that on decision-making in extreme and highly important situations.

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  1. For example, through contacts on the Internet rather than such formal channels as assisted reproduction clinics (Bossema et al. 2014).

  2. VoyForum.com, TadpoleTown.com, BubHub.comFertilityFriends.co.uk—Infertility and Fertility Support, PSD (privatespermdonor.com).

  3. Co-Parent.net, Co-ParentMatch.com, PrideAngel.com, and Modamily.com.

  4. Twenty-one others provided barely any information and so were excluded from our analysis.

  5. Educational level was measured by the following question: My highest level of education achieved at this point in time (1 = below grade 10, 2 = grade 10, 3 = grade 11, 4 = grade 12, 5 = technical college (prevocational, trade college, apprenticeship), 6 = undergraduate university study (diploma, bachelor’s), 7 = post-graduate university study (graduate diploma, graduate certificate, master’s), 8 = doctorate/PhD. A similar item assessed income: My household’s annual wage would be in the range of 1 = below $20,000, 2 = $20,000 – $50,000, 3 = $50,000 -$80,000, 4 = $80,000 – $110,000, 5 = $110,000 – $150,000, 6 = $150,000 – $180,000, 7 = $180,000 – $210,000, 8 = $210,000 – $240,000, 9 = $240,000 – $270,000, 10 = $270,000 – $300,000, 11= above $300,000.

    Height was scaled as follows: 9 = over 220 cm (taller than 7 ft 1 in), 8 = 210–220 cm (6 ft 11 in–7 ft 1 in), 7 = 200–210 cm (6 ft 7 in–6 ft 11 in), 6 = 190–200 cm (6 ft 3 in–6 ft 7 in), 5 = 180–190 cm (5 ft 11 in–6 ft 3 in), 4 = 170–180 cm (5 ft 7 in–5 ft 11 in), 3 = 160–170 cm (5 ft 3 in–5 ft 7 in), 2 = 150–160 cm (4 ft 11 in–5 ft 3 in), 1 = under 150 cm (shorter than 4 ft 11 in). Weight was similarly ranked: 1 = under 50 kg (110 lb), 2 = 50–60 kg (110–132 lb), 3 = 60–70 kg (132–154 lb), 4 = 70–80 kg (154–176 lb), 5 = 80–90 kg (176–198 lb), 6 = 90–100 kg (198–220 lb), 7 = 100–110 kg (220–242 lb), 8 = 110–120 kg (242–264 lb), 9 = 120–130 kg (264–286 lb), 10 = 130–140 kg (286–308 lb), 11 = over 140 kg (308 lb).

  6. All things considered, how would you describe your health (1 = very unhealthy, 7 = very healthy).

    Table 1 Summary statistics: women seeking donors
  7. All things considered, how satisfied are you with your life (1 = very unsatisfied, 7 = very satisfied).

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We acknowledge financial support from the Australian Research Council (FT110100463).

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Table 5 Correlations table: recipient’s preferences for donor characteristics

Our Big Five questionnaire, taken from Saucier’s (1994) work on the ‘mini-marker’, is a 36-item condensed version of Goldberg’s (1992) robust set of 100 markers for Big Five factor analysis. In our version, adjectives with a negative connotation were reversed (designated by the symbol R), so that the numerical value for all answers reflected the same low to high scale. To ascertain each participant’s numerical score for each factor, responses were aggregated on each factor and then averaged based on the number of questions on each. The extraversion factor contained one more question (8 in total) than the other four (each with 7).

The five factors were aggregated from the following scale items: Factor 1: Extraversion

  • Talkative

  • Withdrawn (R)

  • Bashful

  • Quiet (R)

  • Extroverted

  • Shy (R)

  • Enthusiastic

  • Lively

Factor 2: Agreeableness

  • Sympathetic

  • Harsh (R)

  • Kind

  • Cooperative

  • Cold (R)

  • Warm

  • Selfish (R)

Factor 3: Conscientiousness

  • Orderly

  • Systematic

  • Inefficient (R)

  • Sloppy (R)

  • Disorganised (R)

  • Efficient

  • Careless (R)

Factor 4: Emotional Stability (Neuroticism)

  • Envious (R)

  • Moody (R)

  • Touchy (R)

  • Jealous (R)

  • Temperamental (R)

  • Fretful (R)

  • Calm

Factor 5: Openness (Intellect and/or Imagination)

  • Deep

  • Philosophical

  • Creative

  • Intellectual

  • Complex

  • Imaginative

  • Traditional

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Whyte, S., Torgler, B. Selection criteria in the search for a sperm donor: behavioural traits versus physical appearance. J Bioecon 17, 151–171 (2015). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10818-014-9193-9

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