Pathological gamblers and their spouses: Problems in interaction

Abstract

Two parallel self-administered surveys were distributed at three conferences of Gamblers Anonymous. One survey was for members of Gamblers Anonymous and the other was for members of GamAnon. Of the approximately 450 respondents, 302 were completed by the compulsive gambler and the spouse (N=151 couples). This article is a report on these 151 couples. The survey focused on two time periods — the gambler's time of torment, a phase spent in plumbing the depths of dread and despair, and the period of recovery following abstinence from gambling. Specific areas covered focus on the gambler's gambling activities, the spouse's awareness of problems, psychosomatic and emotional difficulties of the couple, sexual relationships, children's attitudes, and financial management. The respondents also indicated their need for specific therapy and workshops which could be provided by professional mental health counselors or at Gamblers Anonymous conferences.