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This chapter examines the understudied question of how lesbians and gay men choose to become parents or remain childfree. The limited research suggests that several factors shape how lesbians and gay men decide to become parents or remain childfree, including personal considerations, support networks, work-related issues, and intimate partner relationships. Existing research also suggests that the role of these factors in parental decision making is shaped by race, class, gender, and sexuality. In general, those with greater race and class privilege tend to have greater access to material resources, to receive greater support from family members, and to intentionally decide to become parents. This chapter reviews past literature on lesbian and gay parenting decisions, suggests new questions for further research, and discusses how studying lesbian and gay men’s parenting decisions informs our understanding of families in general. Reviewing the literature shows how lesbian and gay men’s parenting decision-making processes are socially constructed. In addition, the chapter sheds light on why and how diverse family forms develop at particular historical moments in time. One of the most pressing questions for future research is how race, class, disability, nationality, and geographic location shape parenting decision-making processes.
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As discussed in earlier works (Mezey, 2008a, 2008b), I prefer the term “childfree” over the term “childless” because “childfree” suggests a positive state where women and men have chosen to be free from the responsibilities of child raising, rather than a negative state of something missing or lacking from a person’s life.
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Middle-class includes those with at least a college degree, hold management-level positions, and earn a comfortable wage in which they can save some of their earnings. Working-class includes those with an associate’s degree or less, who work at “blue collar” jobs and whose wages do not allow them to save much or any of their earnings (Mezey, 2008a).
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Mezey, N.J. (2013). How Lesbians and Gay Men Decide to Become Parents or Remain Childfree. In: Goldberg, A., Allen, K. (eds) LGBT-Parent Families. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4614-4556-2_4
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