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The Kiss in Symbol, Ritual, and Myth

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The History of the Kiss!

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What motivates human beings to do the things they do? From ancient philosophy to modern-day psychology and sociobiology, no satisfactory answer to this question has ever emerged. A more manageable version of this question would be: What is the meaning of the things that human beings produce? That is the core query that guides the discipline of semiotics—the science of meaning. As a general framework of ontological inquiry, semiotic method suggests that to understand something enigmatic like the kiss, it is necessary to study it as a sign, that is, as something that stands for a range of meanings that connect it to other meaning structures in the network of signs that the Estonian semiotician, Yuri Lotman, called the semiosphere—the universe of signs in which the human mind is immersed.1

Rose is a rose is a rose.

—Gertrude Stein (1874–1946)

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Danesi, M. (2013). The Kiss in Symbol, Ritual, and Myth. In: The History of the Kiss!. Semiotics and Popular Culture. Palgrave Macmillan, New York. https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137376855_2

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