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Love has a history — and yet the precise contours of that history shift according to whose experiences and which sources we foreground.1 The complexities of love and romance across the central years of the twentieth century are amply demonstrated in the pages of this edited collection. From the diverse emotional attachments of working-class northern men, through the sometimes bittersweet life writings of interwar women, to the oral histories of lone mothers and romantic feelings in retirement, the dynamic nature of love across individual lives and life-cycle stages is expertly illuminated. So too are the ways in which individuals work within, and actively engage with, broader cultural discourses of love and romance in order to fashion emotional selves. As Stephen Brooke so perceptively shows, people in the past were more than capable of inhabiting both the dream worlds of film and music and the real world of lived experience. Whilst a range of self-appointed experts strove to define the parameters of everyday emotion and romantic taste, ordinary people proved remarkably resistant to their dictates. If outright opposition to newly established norms was rare, under-the-radar subversion was rife.
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For a longer treatment of some of the ideas mapped out here, see C. Langhamer (2013) The English in Love: The Intimate Story of an Emotional Revolution (Oxford: Oxford University Press).
M. Lawrence (1963) The Complete Guide to Wedding Etiquette (London: Ward, Lock and Co. Ltd.), p. 7.
On the Manchester and Salford monkey parade, see A. Davies (1992) Leisure, Gender and Poverty: Working-Class Culture in Salford and Manchester, 1900–1939 (Buckingham: Open University Press), pp. 102–08.
C. Rosser and C. Harris (1965) The Family and Social Change: A Study of Family and Kinship in a South Wales Town (London: Routledge and Kegan Paul), p. 341.
D. Thompson (1975) ‘Courtship and Marriage in Preston’, Oral History 3(2), 39–44
For a history of such publications, see H. Cocks (2009) Classified: The Secret History of the Personal Column (London: Random House).
On mutuality, see M. Collins (2003) Modern Love: An Intimate History of Men and Women in Twentieth-Century Britain (London: Atlantic).
M. P. Carter (1963) Education, Employment and Leisure: A Study of ‘Ordinary’ Young People (London: Pergamon Press), pp. 167–68.
B. Cartland (1962) Etiquette Handbook (London: Paul Hamlyn Ltd.), p. 232.
P. Jephcott (1948) Rising Twenty: Notes on Some Ordinary Girls (London: Faber & Faber), pp. 74–75.
On sex and risk, see H. Cook (2004) The Long Sexual Revolution: English Women, Sex and Contraception, 1800’1975 (Oxford: Oxford University Press).
P. Thane and T. Evans (2012) Sinners? Scroungers? Saints? Unmarried Motherhood in Twentieth Century England (Oxford: Oxford University Press).
L. Eyles (1947) Unmarried But Happy (London: Gollancz).
M. B. Smith (1951) The Single Woman of Today: Her Problems and Adjustment (London: Watts & Co.), p. 1.
See for example the debate about capital punishment in the 1940s and 1950s. C. Langhamer (2012) ‘The Live Dynamic Whole of Feeling and Behaviour: Capital Punishment and the Politics of Emotion, 1945–57’, Journal of British Studies 51(2), 416–41.
M. Francis (2008) The Flyer: British Culture and the Royal Air Force 1939–1945 (Oxford: Oxford University Press), p. 84.
J. Bradshaw (1952) ‘The Stability of Marriage’, The Eugenics Review 44(2), 88–89.
G. H. Gallup (1976) Gallup International Public Opinion Polls: Great Britain, 1937–1975, 2 vols. (London: Random House), p. 349.
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Langhamer, C. (2015). Afterword. In: Harris, A., Jones, T.W. (eds) Love and Romance in Britain, 1918–1970. Genders and Sexualities in History Series. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137328632_12
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