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In the public discourse, online dating is often seen as a unique phenomenon, distinctly different from traditional or ‘normal’ ways of finding one’s partner. Whereas many users worldwide embed online dating into their everyday lives quite naturally, the field of mass media in particular still treats it as a peculiar subject. In the following section, the online dating phenomenon will first be embedded within a historical context. In the context of different long-term societal developments, online dating may be well received as a logical consequence of modernity rather than as an anomaly or singularity. Subsequently, the basic principles of online dating and its societal prevalence will be discussed. In the next step, societal diagnoses of online dating, ranging from euphoric to dysphoric reactions, will be outlined. Finally, research will be reviewed that analyzes processes on online dating platforms, and it will be shown that models of individual (rational) choice play a dominant role in empirical research.
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However, the (theoretical) challenge that online daters may be confronted with in their practices of using a dating site – the contradictions between romantic ideals and rational calculation – is not a unique feature of online dating, but has been diagnosed by Habermas as early as 1956 for modern mating in general.
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The data used stems from the PAIRFAM survey. This survey is being coordinated by Bernhard Nauck, Johannes Huinink, Josef Brüderl, and Sabine Walper (see Huinink, Brüderl, Nauck, Walper, Castiglioni, and Feldhaus 2010). The panel is receiving long-term funding from the German Research Foundation (DFG).
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One should note that the distinction between “online” and “offline” dating is only an analytical one and may become increasingly blurred due to the practice of actors using social networking sites. Users may encounter a potential mate offline and use a social network as an opportunity for a second contact, etc. Accordingly, one can assume that a certain number of respondents will interpret sites such as Facebook as a natural feature of their everyday friendship network.
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Due to selective participation in online surveys, especially in this context (Zillmann et al. 2013), the estimate of 29 % should be seen more as an indicator for a maximum proportion, and less as a true population parameter, although other analyses also point towards an increase in couple formation via the internet.
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Schmitz, A. (2017). Online Dating – A Meeting Point for the Modern Individual and Traditional Individualism. In: The Structure of Digital Partner Choice. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-43530-5_2
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