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Beyond Shame and Pride: The University as a Game of Love

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Universities are overrun with competitive “finite games” that obscure possibilities for transformation. These games draw academic players into an oscillation between pride and shame and encourage them to mistake winning the game at hand for a more radical challenge to the competition itself. The “infinite game” is a metaphor for an alternative playing field in which players occupy a hermeneutics of love. As a would-be infinite player, the author describes her attempt to create a university network with love at its centre. The chapter concludes by reflecting on what might happen if academics tried, or at least pretended it was possible, to stay true to love.

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Harré, N. (2021). Beyond Shame and Pride: The University as a Game of Love. In: Black, A.L., Dwyer, R. (eds) Reimagining the Academy. Palgrave Macmillan, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-75859-2_19

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