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Same-Sex Intimacy in South Africa: An Introduction

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The Dynamics and Complexities of Interracial Gay Families in South Africa: A New Frontier

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This chapter sets out the background and context for the book. It highlights the complexities of racial meaning and categorisation in South African context. It also includes an overview of relevant historical and socio-political discourses on same-sex relationships and gay intimate unions in Africa in general, and South Africa in particular. Reflections on gender and sexuality studies, family sociology and homosexuality frame the argument I offer in the book, as this study primarily focuses on interracial gay men’s intimate relationships.

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Adeagbo, O. (2019). Same-Sex Intimacy in South Africa: An Introduction. In: The Dynamics and Complexities of Interracial Gay Families in South Africa: A New Frontier. SpringerBriefs in Sociology. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-03922-6_1

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