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Clinical Perspectives on Stepfamily Dynamics

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How do clinicians view stepfamilies? The history of clinician’s perspectives is presented beginning with early attempts (first wave) to shape stepfamilies as nuclear families. The second wave of stepfamily clinicians proposed developmental modes that were more flexible and create, moving beyond reconstituting the nuclear family. A third wave of clinicians is creating therapeutic approaches including psychoeducation. Stepfamily characteristics are presented in the chapter: stepfamilies begin after many losses and changes as well as differing expectations, they are more structurally complex, children are members of two households, etc. Papernow’s model of the stepfamily life cycle is presented (i.e., fantasy, immersion, awareness, mobilization, action, contact, and resolution) as is Visher and Visher’s model of eight stepfamily tasks that must be addressed before stepfamilies can establish their own stepfamily identity.

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Ganong, L., Coleman, M. (2017). Clinical Perspectives on Stepfamily Dynamics. In: Stepfamily Relationships. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4899-7702-1_12

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