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The Dynamics of Volitional Reliance

A Motivational Perspective on Dependence, Independence, and Social Support

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The idea of self-reliance can evoke quite disparate images in the minds of people from different backgrounds and cultures. For some, self-reliance implies competence, independence, resourcefulness, and strength of character. Self-reliant persons are those who “keep their chins up,” “pull themselves up by their own bootstraps,” and “stand on their own two feet.” This vision of the self-reliant person as stoic, self-empowered, and purposive is prominent in individualistic cultural ideologies; it is associated with the ideals of self-efficacy, personal determination, and progress (Bellah, Madsen, Sullivan, Swidler, & Tipton, 1985; May, 1991, Triandis, 1989). The converse of this idealized image is a view of non-self-reliance (dependence) as weakness, immaturity, or incompetence.

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Butzel, J.S., Ryan, R.M. (1997). The Dynamics of Volitional Reliance. In: Pierce, G.R., Lakey, B., Sarason, I.G., Sarason, B.R. (eds) Sourcebook of Social Support and Personality. The Springer Series in Social/Clinical Psychology. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4899-1843-7_3

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