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Relocation and the Family: A Crisis in Adolescent Development

  • Elaine Ruth Goldberg
Part of the Current Topics in Mental Health book series (CTMH)

Abstract

When adolescents move, they face the combined stresses of adaptation to a new environment and the pressures of adolescent development. Although either transition can produce dramatic upheavals in individuals and family systems, the double stress of moving and growing up is an extreme challenge to an adolescent’s security and well-being. The long-term effects of academic and social status on his or her self-concept and the urgency of college and career choices raise the stakes of uprooting.

Keywords

Early Adolescent Personal Accomplishment Adolescent Development Garden City School Adjustment 
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© Plenum Press, New York 1980

Authors and Affiliations

  • Elaine Ruth Goldberg
    • 1
  1. 1.Educational ConsultantBrightonUSA

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