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Parentification

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Informed by Chaps. 1 and 2, Chaps. 3–6 now turn to specific models of psychopathology, namely, parentification, parental alienating behavior, bullying, and Stockholm syndrome. More specifically, Chap. 3 introduces the construct of parentification and explores how this construct can lead to a range of roles, relational, and generational outcomes, including psychopathology. This specific chapter explores how relational competence theory (RCT) and other theories can serve as a foundation to explain multiple and divergent outcomes (e.g., pathological and normative) of parentification. In addition, tenets of the DT are used to elucidate roles, responsibilities, and processes related to parentification. Finally, Chap. 3 provides readers with a brief overview of the seminal empirical and clinical literature on outcomes associated with parentification.

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Hooper, L.M., L’Abate, L., Sweeney, L.G., Gianesini, G., Jankowski, P.J. (2014). Parentification. In: Models of Psychopathology. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4614-8081-5_3

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