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Family-Present Euthanasia: Protocols for Planning and Preparing Clients for the Death of a Pet

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The Psychology of the Human-Animal Bond

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Anticipating the euthanasia of a beloved companion animal can be a nerve-wracking experience. This is especially true if owners or entire families wish to be present when their pets die.

While there is much written to help pet owners deal with grief after their pets die, there is very little information available to help them make necessary plans and to prepare themselves emotionally before the procedure of euthanasia. There are even fewer studies and published information about the interventions mental health practitioners can use to be of assistance to clients during this preparation and planning phase.

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Cards, Memorials, Counselors and Information

World by the Tail, Inc.

“caring for people who care for pets”

126 West Harvard Street, Suite 5

Fort Collins, CO 80525

1-888-271-8444

info@wbtt.com

www.veterinarywisdomforpetparents.com

Up-to-date referrals, resources, consultation, and products for pet parents and mental health professionals who provide pet loss support.

VeterinaryWisdom® Support Center

Free instant downloads about pet loss

Dana Durrance, M.A., veterinary grief counselor

Condolence cards

ClayPaws® paw print kits and other pet tribute products

Argus Institute

Colorado State University

James L. Voss Veterinary Teaching Hospital

300 West Drake, Fort Collins, CO 80525

1-970-297-4143

argus@colostate.edu

www.argusinstitute.colostate.edu/whatnow.htm

What Now booklet for grieving pet owners

Clinical Service providing client grief support

Pet Hospice Program

Marty Touseley, certified hospice bereavement counselor

www.griefhealing.com

Supportive information and “A Different Grief: Coping with Pet Loss”, a 24-lesson e-course for pet parents who’ve lost a pet. Supplemental material for supporting grieving children is also available.

Center for Loss and Life Transition

www./centerforloss.com

When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering, and Healing by bereavement expert Dr. Alan Wolfelt

Pet Loss/Grief Support & Training

Argus Institute

Colorado State University

James L. Voss Veterinary Teaching Hospital

300 West Drake, Fort Collins, CO 80525

1-970-297-4143

argus@colostate.edu

www.argusinstitute.colostate.edu

Veterinary communication/grief support curriculum and trainings

FRANK: Veterinarian-Client Communication Initiative (workshops and trainings with CE credits available)

World by the Tail, Inc.

“caring for people who care for pets”

126 West Harvard Street, Suite 5

Fort Collins, CO 80525

1-888-271-8444

info@wbtt.com

www.veterinarywisdom.com

Up-to-date referrals, resources, consultation, and products for pet parents and veterinary professionals who provide pet loss support.

VeterinaryWisdom® Resource Center

Dana Durrance, M.A., veterinary grief specialist and practice consultant

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www.aplb.org

National organization providing training and “certification” for pet loss support counselors. The Association’s website offers information, counselor referrals, and online forums/support for pet owners.

Center for Loss and Life Transition

www./centerforloss.com

Directed by bereavement expert Dr. Alan Wolfelt, the center offers a “Pet Loss Companioning” Certification Program, as well as books and information about pet loss.

Canadian Centre for Pet Loss Bereavement

www.petlosssupport.ca

A national free public service website offering support, information, and training in pet loss counseling.

Institute for Healthcare Communication, Inc.

555 Long Wharf Drive, 13th Floor

New Haven, CT 06511-5901

Ph: 800-800-5907 or 203-772-8280

FAX: 203-772-1066

Email: info@healthcarecomm.org

www.healthcarecomm.org

A nationally accredited, not-for-profit organization that trains physicians and, in recent years veterinarians, throughout North America in effective communication skills. The veterinary communication training initiative is funded by a grant from Bayer Animal Health.

Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC)

111 Dear Lake Road, Suite 100

Deerfield, IL 60015

847-509-0403

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A national membership association providing certification and distance learning programs, as well as resources, information, and an annual conference.

Professional Veterinary Organizations that Address Pet Loss Issues

American Veterinary Medicine Association (AVMA)

ww.avma.org (search pet loss)

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www.aaha.org

Training materials for veterinary professionals and books/pamphlets for veterinary clients

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Provides education, research, and support to enhance veterinarians’ ability to create positive and ethical relationships among people, animals, and their environments.

Association for Veterinary Family Practice (AVFP)

www.avfp.org

(for membership and contact information)

Offers online and on-site (UC-Davis) coursework in the emerging specialty of Veterinary Family Practice. Topics include pets in families and society and the clinical skills needed to care for both patients and clients.

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Chicago, IL 60614

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The purpose of this conference is to promote the development of veterinary communication research and education

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Promotes the scientific and scholarly study of human–animal interactions. Also publishes the Anthrozoos journal and offers professional meetings and conferences worldwide.

Delta Society: the human–animal health connection

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(for membership and contact information)

Improves human health through service and therapy animals

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Lagoni, L. (2011). Family-Present Euthanasia: Protocols for Planning and Preparing Clients for the Death of a Pet. In: Blazina, C., Boyraz, G., Shen-Miller, D. (eds) The Psychology of the Human-Animal Bond. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4419-9761-6_11

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