I am now going to produce a check-list or quiz (rather like those in popular magazines), which can be used to determine whether you love someone or not — that is, love him/her erotically and as an equal. This undertaking will be seen either as too bold and arrogant, or else as trivialising the whole business. Nevertheless I think it may be useful, if only as an attempt to concentrate the mind on the rather lengthy and discursive arguments in the main text. (I have given references to these arguments for each question.)
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