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Intimacy

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  • Attachment Style
  • Romantic Partner
  • Emotional Intimacy
  • Interpersonal Risk
  • Client Response

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Kohlenberg, R.J., Kohlenberg, B., Tsai, M. (2009). Intimacy. In: A Guide to Functional Analytic Psychotherapy. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-09787-9_6

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