General Principles, Implications, and Future Directions

My husband and I recently faced a very difficult experience. I was extremely ill and our fourth child was born prematurely (at 5 months gestational age). Our little son lived for 1 1/2 hours. We’ve grown closer through this experience. Isaw a strength and wisdom surface in my husband which I had only sensed before. I knew he was a good man when we married, but my esteem and admiration have grown a great deal in 6 years. I think that all couples need to give themselves time to grow through life’s experiences (hopefully closer and not apart). I know that we are amazed at how much we’ve learned injust 6 years. We’vepassed through some difficult times which have challengedourrelationship. We do not consider our marriage a temporary commitment so we seek tofind ways to make it better because separation is not an option.

Ihave learned that marriage is not always easy and does take work. However, I feel that there is great honor in staying with your commitments. I believe that love is not enough to hold a family together. It is natural for love to waiver from time to time but it is religion, family, friends, and honoring commitments that help to keep you going through any hardships. I’m lucky I married my best friend and I thank God for him and my son everyday.