The American Journal of Psychoanalysis

, Volume 79, Issue 4, pp 594–600 | Cite as

A Primal Environment for a 21st Century’s “Naissance”. Thoughts on the Language of Tenderness in Ferenczi’s Footsteps*

  • Julianna VamosEmail author


In a progressive maternity clinic in Paris, “Les Bluets”, the team and the psychoanalyst work to create a supportive atmosphere, so that the newborn infant and the new parents can receive a respectful welcome with a holding environment. The main participants around the newborn are the parents, midwives, and nurses, and the team members share their observations about how to answer the infant’s needs, and adjust and satisfy his/her comfort. This meets what Ferenczi describes as tenderness. Specific, detailed feedback is given so the experience of mother-father-baby cooperation can start to take place from the very beginning. In case the baby is left for adoption, he/she is treated with even more attentive caregiving where all the details are very important.


Post-natal intervention Baby’s active role Language of tenderness Cooperation Care for adoption Ferenczi 



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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.ParisFrance

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