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The author examines the position of a child from whom important matters in his or her own life or key events in the family have been kept secret, outlines criteria by which the decision whether or not to unveil the secret should be made, and urges colleagues to gather more data and examine further family secrets.
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Selvini, M. Family Secrets: The Case of the Patient Kept in the Dark. Contemporary Family Therapy 19, 315–335 (1997). https://doi.org/10.1023/A:1026131609210
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