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Family-Focused Relational Psychotherapy: An Integrative Approach and Its Application to Adult Children of Divorce

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This paper presents an integrative model of treatment—family focused relational psychotherapy—and applies it to work with adult children of divorce (ACDs). Three areas of assessment are identified—(a) assessment of individual ego development, (b) assessment of family of origin functioning, and (c) assessment of the nature of the parents' divorce (e.g., level of conflict). Based on this assessment, the treatment model is presented, which integrates strategies from relational/psychodynamic therapy, family of origin work, and experiential techniques. Case examples are presented to demonstrate the appropriate integration of these techniques with clients at different levels in the assessment schema. In addition, a review of the literature on the long-term effects of divorce on children suggests several specific issues that may arise in treatment. These include low self-esteem, emotional distress, externalizing problems, and interpersonal problems such as fear of commitment, difficulty trusting, a high rate of divorce, and strained relationships with parents.

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Jones, R.A., Jablonski, A.L. Family-Focused Relational Psychotherapy: An Integrative Approach and Its Application to Adult Children of Divorce. Journal of Psychotherapy Integration 8, 69–95 (1998). https://doi.org/10.1023/A:1023285422736

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