Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology

, Volume 30, Issue 6, pp 599–607

Relational and Physical Victimization Within Friendships: Nobody Told Me There'd Be Friends Like These



In past research, relational and physical forms of peer victimization have been identified that have been shown to be significantly associated with social–psychological maladjustment. These forms of victimization, although studied primarily within the group peer context, also occur within dyadic relationships such as friendships. Gender differences in friend victimization and the association between friend victimization and children's social–psychological adjustment were examined. Results showed that boys were more physically victimized by their friends than were girls. Girls were more relationally than physically victimized by their friends. Friend victimization was related to adjustment difficulties for both boys and girls; however, friend physical victimization was particularly related to boys whereas friend relational victimization was particularly related to girls. The implications of these findings for future research and intervention with victimized children are discussed.

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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.Institute of Child DevelopmentUniversity of Minnesota, Twin Cities CampusMinneapolis
  2. 2.Department of Marriage, Family & Human Development, School of Family LifeBrigham Young UniversityProvo

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