Sexuality Research and Social Policy

, Volume 9, Issue 4, pp 327–336 | Cite as

Is This What Equality Looks Like?

How Assimilation Marginalizes the Dutch LGBT Community
  • Brandon Andrew RobinsonEmail author


Using the Netherlands as a case study, this article explores how increased social acceptance of and legal protections for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people impact their lives. The author draws on in-depth interviews with nine LGBT people to argue that the danger of acceptance is invisibility for those who assimilate and marginalization for those who do not conform to assimilationist discourses, such as transgender individuals and other gender nonconformers. Utilizing Butler’s theories of normalization and Goffman’s theories of stigmatization, the findings also show that assimilating into homonormativity can generate feelings of shame and fear. The author concludes that new approaches in dismantling heteronormativity and seeking equality are needed in order to achieve genuine acceptance for LGBT people.


LGBT Homonormativity Heteronormativity Gender nonconformity Normalization Stigmatization 



First and foremost, I greatly appreciate the anonymous reviewers at Sexuality Research & Social Policy for their encouraging and constructive feedback on this manuscript. I would also like to thank Christine Williams, Kristine Kilanski, Pamela Neumann, Lady Adjepong, and Kate Henley Averett for their support and comments throughout this entire process.


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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.Department of SociologyUniversity of Texas at AustinAustinUSA

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