Kind & Adolescent

, Volume 35, Issue 2, pp 108–112 | Cite as

Zoete woorden met een bittere nasmaak

Kan het complimenteren van kinderen met lage zelfwaardering averechts werken? Reisverslag
  • Eddie Brummelman


Praise, like penicillin, must not be administered haphazardly. There are rules and cautions that govern the handling of potent medicines – rules about timing and dosage, cautions about possible allergic reactions. There are similar regulations about the administration of emotional medicine.


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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.afdeling OntwikkelingspsychologieUniversiteit UtrechtUtrechtThe Netherlands

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