Skip to main content
Log in

Supporting grieving students amidst COVID-19: Emotion- and problem-focused coping strategies of teachers who supported grieving children during the COVID-19 pandemic

  • Published:
Current Psychology Aims and scope Submit manuscript

Abstract

The COVID-19 pandemic has heightened the need to explore individuals' coping with grief. Childhood bereavement is estimated at more than 1.5 million children around the world who lost a caregiver during the pandemic. Although 70% of teachers report having grieving children (GC) in their classroom, most studies examined psychologists' roles in supporting GC, whereas research into teachers' coping lags far behind. Furthermore, little is known about teachers' coping specifically during the COVID-19 pandemic, that involved distance teaching and challenged teacher-student communication. The study's goal was to examine how teachers' coping strategies are manifested when supporting GC, using the framework of Lazarus and Folkman's transactional theory of stress and coping. Employing a qualitative approach, 15 teachers were interviewed about their experiences and coping strategies. Content analysis revealed that teachers struggle within three arenas (intrapersonal- within themselves, interpersonal vis-à-vis the student, interpersonal vis-à-vis the classmates), within which they employ both emotion- and problem-focused coping strategies. The study's significance lies in the premise that improving our understanding of teachers’ coping might shed light on how to optimally attend to teachers' needs. The study may promote policy changes that may improve the design of teacher training as well as enhance our theoretical understanding of a topic that has received surprisingly little attention in research.

This is a preview of subscription content, log in via an institution to check access.

Access this article

Price excludes VAT (USA)
Tax calculation will be finalised during checkout.

Instant access to the full article PDF.

Fig. 1

Similar content being viewed by others

Data availability

The datasets generated during and/or analysed during the current study are not publicly available due to ethical reasons. This study includes data of qualitative interviews conducted with teachers about an emotionally challenging issue. Individual's privacy could be compromised if we publish the full interview text publicly, but these are available from the corresponding author on reasonable request.

References

  • Ahuja, K. K. (2022). Scanning the VIRUS: A study of dimensions of stress and coping with COVID-19. Current Psychology, 41(10), 7326–7336.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • American Federation of Teachers. (2012, December). Grief in the Classroom. New York Life Foundation. https://www.newyorklife.com/assets/foundation/docs/pdfs/NYL-AFT-Bereavement-Survey.pdf

  • Atkinson, R., & Flint, J. (2001). Accessing hidden and hard-to-reach populations: Snowball research strategies. Social Research Update, 33(1), 1–4.

    Google Scholar 

  • Baum, N. (2012). ‘Emergency routine’: The experience of professionals in a shared traumatic reality of war. British Journal of Social Work, 42(3), 424–442.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Baum, N. (2016). Secondary traumatization in mental health professionals: A systematic review of gender findings. Trauma, Violence, & Abuse, 17(2), 221–235.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Baum, N. L., Rotter, B., Reidler, E., & Brom, D. (2009). Building resilience in schools in the wake of Hurricane Katrina. Journal of Child & Adolescent Trauma, 2(1), 62–70.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Ben Asher, S., Sagy, S., Srour, A., Walden, T., Huss, E., Shahar, E., & Alsraiha, K. (2020). Hope among refugee children attending the international school of peace on Lesbos. Journal of Refugee Studies, 34(2), 2180–2199.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Braun, V., & Clarke, V. (2006). Using thematic analysis in psychology. Qualitative Research in Psychology, 3(2), 77–101.

  • Burns, M., Griese, B., King, S., & Talmi, A. (2020). Childhood bereavement: Understanding prevalence and related adversity in the United States. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 90(4), 391–405.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Caga, J., Kiernan, M. C., & Piguet, O. (2022). A systematic review of caregiver coping strategies in amyotrophic lateral sclerosis and frontotemporal dementia. Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry and Neurology, 35(6), 763–777.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Chang, M. L. (2013). Toward a theoretical model to understand teacher emotions and teacher burnout in the context of student misbehavior: Appraisal, regulation and coping. Motivation and Emotion, 37, 799–817.

  • Creswell, J. W., & Poth, C. N. (2016). Qualitative inquiry and research design: Choosing among five approaches. Sage.

    Google Scholar 

  • Cohen, R., Katz, I., Aelterman, N., & Vansteenkiste, M. (2023). Understanding shifts in students’ academic motivation across a school year: The role of teachers’ motivating styles and need-based experiences. European Journal of Psychology of Education, 38(3), 963–988.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Daharnis, D. (2022). The role of homeroom teacher in guidance and counseling services at school. Jurnal Neo Konseling, 4(2), 1–6.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Dhawan, S. (2020). Online learning: A panacea in the time of COVID-19 crisis. Journal of Educational Technology Systems, 49(1), 5–22.

    Article  PubMed Central  Google Scholar 

  • Demaria, T., Gilman, R., Mazyck, D., & Schonfeld, D. (2023). The impact of distress, personal meaning & training on the delivery of support to grieving students by school nurses. The Journal of School Nursing, 39(6), 517–523.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Dimery, E., & Templeton, S. (2021). Death, bereavement and grief: The role of the teacher in supporting a child experiencing the death of a parent. Practice, 3(2), 146–165.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Doka, K. J. (2017). The disenfranchised grief of children and adolescents. In Children, adolescents and death (pp. 37–43). Routledge.‏

  • Dyregrov, A., Dyregrov, K., & Idsoe, T. (2013). Teachers’ perceptions of their role facing children in grief. Emotional and Behavioural Difficulties, 18(2), 125–134.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Dyregrov, A., Dyregrov, K., Endsjø, M., & Idsoe, T. (2015). Teachers’ perception of bereaved children’s academic performance. Advances in School Mental Health Promotion, 8(3), 187–198.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Dyregrov, A., Dyregrov, K., & Lytje, M. (2020). Loss in the family – A reflection on how schools can support their students. Bereavement Care, 39(3), 95–101.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Ferraro, F. R. (2023). Introduction to special issue on parents & children. Current Psychology, 42(19), 15913–15913.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Fitzgerald, D. A., Nunn, K., & Isaacs, D. (2021). What we have learnt about trauma, loss and grief for children in response to COVID-19. Pediatric Respiratory Reviews, 39, 16–21.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Frei-Landau, R., Orland-Barak, L., & Muchnick-Rozonov, Y. (2022a). What's in it for the observer? Mimetic aspects of learning through observation in simulation-based learning in teacher education. Teaching and Teacher Education, 113, 103682.

  • Frei-Landau, R., Avidov-Ungar, O., Heaysman, O., Abu-Sareya, A., & Idan, L. (2022b). Conceptualising Bedouin teachers’ social-emotional learning in the context of teaching children with neurodevelopmental disorders. Teaching Education, pp. 1–24.

  • Frei-Landau, R., Hasson-Ohayon, I., & Tuval-Mashiach, R. (2022c). The experience of divine struggle following child loss: the case of Israeli bereaved Modern-Orthodox parents. Death Studies, 46(6), 1329–1343.

  • Frei-Landau, R. (2023a). Who should support grieving children in school? Applying Winnicott's viewpoint to conceptualize the dyadic roles of teachers and school mental-health professionals in the context of pediatric grief. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 14, 1290967.

  • Frei-Landau, R., Abo-Mokh, I., & Ben-Yehoshua, N. S. (2023b). Religious meaning-making among Muslim parents bereaved by homicide: Struggling to accept ‘God's will’and yearning for ‘Qayama’day. Heliyon, 9(9).

  • Fusch, P. I., & Ness, N. R. (2015). Are we there yet? Data saturation in qualitative research. The Qualitative Report., 20(9), 1480.

    Google Scholar 

  • Hadar, L. L., Ergas, O., Alpert, B., & Ariav, T. (2020). Rethinking teacher education in a VUCA world: Student teachers’ social-emotional competencies during the Covid-19 crisis. European Journal of Teacher Education, 43(4), 573–586.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Hennink, M. M., Kaiser, B. N., & Marconi, V. C. (2017). Code saturation versus meaning saturation: How many interviews are enough? Qualitative Health Research, 27(4), 591–608.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Hillis, S. D., Unwin, H. J. T., Chen, Y., Cluver, L., Sherr, L., Goldman, P. S., … Flaxman, S. (2021). Global minimum estimates of children affected by COVID-19-associated orphanhood and deaths of caregivers: A modelling study. The Lancet, 398(10298), 391–402.‏

  • Holland, J. (2016). Responding to loss and bereavement in schools: A training resource to assess, evaluate and improve the school response. Jessica Kingsley Publishers.

    Google Scholar 

  • Huh, H. J., Kim, K. H., Lee, H. K., & Chae, J. H. (2017). Attachment styles, grief responses, and the moderating role of coping strategies in parents bereaved by the Sewol ferry accident. European Journal of Psychotraumatology, 8(sup6), 1424446.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Kern, L., Mathur, S. R., Albrecht, S. F., Poland, S., Rozalski, M., & Skiba, R. J. (2017). The need for school-based mental health services and recommendations for implementation. School Mental Health, 9, 205–217.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Korstjens, I., & Moser, A. (2018). Series: Practical guidance to qualitative research. Part 4: Trustworthiness and publishing. European Journal of General Practice, 24(1), 120–124.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Lazarus, R. S. (1991). Cognition and motivation in emotion. American Psychologist, 46(4), 352.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Lazarus, R. S. (2000). Toward better research on stress and coping. American Psychologist, 55(6), 665–673. https://doi.org/10.1037//0003-066X.55.6.665

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Lazarus, R. S., & Folkman, S. (1984). Stress, appraisal and coping. Springer.

    Google Scholar 

  • Lane, N., Rowland, A., & Beinart, H. (2014). “No rights or wrongs, no magic solutions”: Teachers’ responses to bereaved adolescent students. Death Studies, 38(10), 654–661.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Levitan, F., Frei-Landau, R., & Sabar-Ben-Yehoshua, N. A. (2022). “I Just Needed a Hug”: Culturally-based disenfranchised grief of Jewish ultraorthodox women following pregnancy loss. OMEGA-Journal of Death and Dying. https://doi.org/10.1177/00302228221133864

  • Liu, H., Liu, Q., Du, X., Liu, J., Hoi, C. K. W., & Schumacker, R. E. (2021). Teacher-student relationship as a protective factor for socioeconomic status, students’ self-efficacy and achievement: A multilevel moderated mediation analysis. Current Psychology, 1–16.‏

  • Li, J., Vestergaard, M., Cnattingius, S., Gissler, M., Bech, B. H., Obel, C., & Olsen, J. (2014). Mortality after parental death in childhood: A nationwide cohort study from three Nordic countries. PLoS Medicine, 11, e1001679.

    Article  PubMed  PubMed Central  Google Scholar 

  • Lytje, M. (2016). Voices we forget – Danish students’ experience of returning to school following parental bereavement. OMEGA - Journal of Death and Dying, 78(1), 24–42.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Lytje, M. (2017). Voices that want to be heard – Using bereaved Danish students’ suggestions to update school bereavement response plans. Death Studies, 42(4), 254–267.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • MacIntyre, P. D., Gregersen, T., & Mercer, S. (2020). Language teachers’ coping strategies during the Covid-19 conversion to online teaching: Correlations with stress, wellbeing and negative emotions. System, 94, 102352.

    Article  PubMed Central  Google Scholar 

  • McLaughlin, C., Lytje, M., & Holliday, C. (2019). Consequences of childhood bereavement in the context of the British school system. University of Cambridge.

    Google Scholar 

  • Naamati-Schneider, L., & Gabay, G. (2022). Metaphors of war in effective and ineffective coping of medical directors of COVID-19 wards in public hospitals. Frontiers in Public Health, 10, 830266.

    Article  PubMed  PubMed Central  Google Scholar 

  • Ogueji, I. A., Okoloba, M. M., & Demoko Ceccaldi, B. M. (2021). Coping strategies of individuals in the United Kingdom during the COVID-19 pandemic. Current Psychology, 1–7.‏

  • Ormiston, H. E., Nygaard, M. A., & Apgar, S. (2022). A systematic review of secondary traumatic stress and compassion fatigue in teachers. School Mental Health, 1–16.‏

  • Otowa, T., York, T. P., Gardner, C. O., Kendler, K. S., & Hettema, J. M. (2014). The impact of childhood parental loss on risk for mood, anxiety and substance use disorders in a populationbased sample of male twins. Psychiatry Research, 220(1–2), 404–409.

  • Paryente, B., & Frei-Landau, R. (2024). A dual debrief-based co-autoethnography of a humanitarian delegation member: Supporting Ukraine refugee mothers through ambiguous loss. Methodological Innovationshttps://doi.org/10.1177/20597991241241845

  • Rabinowitz, M. (2019, October). Government assistance to orphaned children. The research center of the Israeli parliament. https://fs.knesset.gov.il/globaldocs/MMM/380a6208-30e7-e811-80e7-00155d0aeea3/2_380a6208-30e7-e811-80e7-00155d0aeea3_11_13602.pdf (in Hebrew).

  • Robinson, L. E., Valido, A., Drescher, A., Woolweaver, A. B., Espelage, D. L., LoMurray, S., … Dailey, M. M. (2023). Teachers, stress, and the COVID-19 pandemic: A qualitative analysis. School mental health, 15(1), 78–89.‏

  • Sabar Ben-Yehoshua, N. (2016). ‘I’ll sue you if you publish my wife’s interview’: Ethical dilemmas in qualitative research based on life stories. Qualitative Research, 17(4), 408–423. https://doi.org/10.1177/14687941166797

  • Schonfeld, D. J., & Demaria, T. P. (2018). The role of school psychologists in the support of grieving children. School Psychology Quarterly, 33(3), 361–362. https://doi.org/10.1037/spq0000286

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Schonfeld, D. J., & Quackenbush, M. (2021). The grieving student: A guide for schools (2nd ed.). Paul H. Brookes.

    Google Scholar 

  • Schnider, K. R., Elhai, J. D., & Gray, M. J. (2007). Coping style use predicts posttraumatic stress and complicated grief symptom severity among college students reporting a traumatic loss. Journal of Counseling Psychology, 54(3), 344.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Sharif, I. (2021) Coping with bereavement in the COVID-19 crisis – development of the “From the depths” program. In I. Ben Shachar & I. Harmoni (Eds.) Meydaos 93, 18–23 (in Hebrew).

  • Teixeira, R. J., Applebaum, A. J., Bhatia, S., & Brandão, T. (2018). The impact of coping strategies of cancer caregivers on psychophysiological outcomes: An integrative review. Psychology Research and Behavior Management, 207–215.‏

  • Wang, H., & Hall, N. C. (2021). Exploring relations between teacher emotions, coping strategies, and intentions to quit: A longitudinal analysis. Journal of School Psychology, 86, 64–77.

    Article  PubMed  Google Scholar 

  • Wang, H., Ng, T. K., & Siu, O. L. (2022a). How does psychological capital lead to better well-being for students? The roles of family support and problem-focused coping. Current Psychology, 1–12.‏

  • Wang, H., Lee, S. Y., & Hall, N. C. (2022b). Coping profiles among teachers: Implications for emotions, job satisfaction, burnout, and quitting intentions. Contemporary Educational Psychology, 68, 102030.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Wang, D., Cao, D., & Kiani, A. (2023a). How and when can job-insecure employees prevent psychological distress against the COVID-19 pandemic? The role of cognitive appraisal and reappraisal. Current Psychology, 1–13.‏

  • Wang, I. Y., Chan, R. C., & Wang, H. (2023b). The associations of procrastination with preservice teachers’ stress and experiences during the COVID-19 pandemic: A three-wave longitudinal investigation. Social Psychology of Education, 1–21.‏

  • Wassink-de Stigter, R., Kooijmans, R., Asselman, M. W., Offerman, E. C. P., Nelen, W., & Helmond, P. (2022). Facilitators and barriers in the implementation of trauma-informed approaches in schools: A scoping review. School Mental Health, 14(3), 470–484.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Watters, J. K., & Biernacki, P. (2009). Targeted sampling: Options for the study of hidden populations. Social Problems, 36(4), 416–430.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Worden, J. W., & Winokuer, H. R. (2021). A task-based approach for counseling the bereaved. In Grief and bereavement in contemporary society (pp. 57–67). Routledge.‏

  • Xu, J., & Yang, X. (2023). The influence of resilience on stress reaction of college students during COVID-19: The mediating role of coping style and positive adaptive response. Current Psychology, 1–12.‏

Download references

Acknowledgements

This study is dedicated, with deep thanks, to the teachers who agreed to share their experiences for the purposes of this research project.

Author information

Authors and Affiliations

Authors

Corresponding author

Correspondence to Rivi Frei-Landau.

Ethics declarations

Conflict of interest

The authors declare no conflict of interests.

Additional information

Publisher's Note

Springer Nature remains neutral with regard to jurisdictional claims in published maps and institutional affiliations.

Rights and permissions

Springer Nature or its licensor (e.g. a society or other partner) holds exclusive rights to this article under a publishing agreement with the author(s) or other rightsholder(s); author self-archiving of the accepted manuscript version of this article is solely governed by the terms of such publishing agreement and applicable law.

Reprints and permissions

About this article

Check for updates. Verify currency and authenticity via CrossMark

Cite this article

Frei-Landau, R., Mirsky, C. & Sabar-Ben-Yehoshua, N. Supporting grieving students amidst COVID-19: Emotion- and problem-focused coping strategies of teachers who supported grieving children during the COVID-19 pandemic. Curr Psychol (2024). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-024-06080-8

Download citation

  • Accepted:

  • Published:

  • DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-024-06080-8

Keywords

Navigation