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De-Privatizing Self-Harm: Remembering the Social Self in How to Forget

Abstract

This article reads Malu De Martino’s 2010 film Como Esqueçer (How to Forget) as a case study in self-harm as a mode of expression and self-inquiry. Drawing on disability and queer theory, psychoanalysis, and sociology of medicine, the author argues that How to Forget charts a “crip” epistemology of self-harm and theorizes a “social self.” That is to say, the film models an orientation towards self-harm that offers a coalitional and social therapeutic understanding. Based on this reading, the author suggests the application of practices of knowing-with, or knowing-in-relation as “cripistemology” to a broader therapeutic, research, and lay context.

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    In the context of global neoliberal practices, Jasbir Puar has used the term “debility” to describe disability that comes about from degradation and exploitation (Puar 2009). “Affective debility” is a perhaps then a pertinent descriptor to the situation of minorities within a given state.

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    Borderline personality disorder, in particular, is characterized by self-harm, and etiology of the disorder cites domestic and social invalidating environments among its triggers.

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    Broadly, his theory could be explained as the haptic equivalent of the Lacanian optically-based mirror-stage, whereby there is a certain primary trauma of subject-formation that comes with the realization of being autonomously enclosed in one’s own skin, separate from others, starting with the mother.

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    The current official English-language translation of the title of the film is So Hard to Forget, but a more literal translation of Como Esqueçer is How to Forget, which serves the purposes of my analysis better, so I have taken the liberty of using the more literal translation here. It is worth noting that How to Forget: Nearly English Notes is the English translation of the title of the novel by Myriam Campello (2003) on which the film is based.

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    When inquiring as to whether she might have recourse to any financial assistance from her ex, Julia is informed that the Brazilian government has “no pension guarantees for homo-affective relationships” (De Martino 2010).

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    Film stills are courtesy of the director, Malu De Martino.

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Danylevich, T. De-Privatizing Self-Harm: Remembering the Social Self in How to Forget . Bioethical Inquiry 13, 507–514 (2016). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11673-016-9739-8

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Keywords

  • Body studies
  • Critical health studies
  • Medical sociology
  • Self-harm
  • Skin ego