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An innovative approach to lifelong delayed ejaculation: does attachment style play a role?

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Abstract

Purpose

To examine whether there is a correlation between attachment styles, which is a developmental psychology theory, and lifelong DE.

Methods

The research was planned as prospective, multi-centric and cross-sectional study. Thirty patients who were consecutively admitted to the urology outpatient clinic and diagnosed with lifelong DE and 30 age-matched healthy controls were included in the study. All participants gave a detailed medical history and underwent a complete physical examination, and their laboratory and endocrine (prolactin and testosterone) results were evaluated. Additionally, all patients had to fill out socio-demographic information form, the Experiences in Close Relationships-Revised (ECR-R) Questionnaire, Arizona Sexual Experiences Scale (ASEX), Beck Anxiety Inventory (BAI), and Beck Depression Inventory (BDI).

Results

The mean age of the DE patients was 33.5 ± 7.5 years. In the DE group, insecure attachment (both anxious and avoidant attachment), anxiety and depression scores were found to be significantly higher (p < 0.001, effect size medium or large) than the control group. Ejaculation times (both for vaginal intercourse and masturbation) were correlated with both insecure (anxious and avoidant) attachment types, as well as their anxiety and depression scores (p < 0.001). The ASEX satisfaction, ejaculation and total scores were found to be higher in DE patients (higher scores indicating greater sexual dysfunction) than in the control group.

Conclusion

The large and significant relationships found between lifelong DE and attachment insecurities point to childhood developmental processes. The findings may help us better understand lifelong DE. There is a need for further extensive research on this subject.

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  1. Department of Urology, Faculty of Medicine, Van Yuzuncu Yil University, Van, Turkey

    Murat Demir & Kasım Ertas

  2. Department of Psychiatry, Faculty of Medicine, Van Yuzuncu Yil University, Van, Turkey

    Mesut Isık

  3. Department of Urology, Mus Bulanik State Hospital, Mus, Turkey

    Şeyhmuz Araz

  4. Department of Urology, Van Training and Research Hospital, Van, Turkey

    Hüseyin Özveren

  5. Institute on Drug Abuse, Toxicology and Pharmaceutical Science, Ege University, İzmir, Turkey

    Umut Kırlı

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Demir, M., Isık, M., Araz, Ş. et al. An innovative approach to lifelong delayed ejaculation: does attachment style play a role?. Int Urol Nephrol 54, 1491–1498 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11255-022-03219-z

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