Utilizing three typologies that emerged from the data, we examine how 30 working-class cohabiting couples construct gender through paid and domestic labor. Contesting couples contain at least one partner, usually the woman, who attempts to construct more egalitarian arrangements. In Conventional and Counter-Conventional couples, neither partner is actively contesting their gendered arrangements. Among Conventional couples each partner adheres to a traditional division of labor. Normative gender arrangements are upended in Contesting and Counter-Conventional couples when the female partner resists financial dependence on her male partner or if or the male partner does not earn enough income to provide even for himself. Nevertheless, institutionalized gender roles appear deeply entrenched among the working-class cohabitors in this study.
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The authors would like to thank Sarah Favinger for her assistance in collecting the data and Betty Menaghan, Liana Sayer, and Townsand Price-Spratlen for their comments on earlier drafts.
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Miller, A.J., Sassler, S. The Construction of Gender Among Working-Class Cohabiting Couples. Qual Sociol 35, 427–446 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11133-012-9234-4
- Gender roles
- Paid work
- Working class