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Common Grief, Complex Grieving

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In this article, the author reflects on the changes during the last 25 years in our understanding of grief and on the emerging new issues in the field of loss and grief studies. He identifies several significant issues, including the implications of violent death for public and private grief, the increased attention upon the family as a mourner, and new ritual patterns emerging out of changes in funeral practices in recent years. The essay concludes by briefly considering a number of issues shaping grief and our care for those who mourn.

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Anderson, H. Common Grief, Complex Grieving. Pastoral Psychol 59, 127–136 (2010). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11089-009-0243-5

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