After reviewing the notion of caring-self from a Korean feminist perspective, this paper argues that caring-self, in spite of its great contribution to pastoral care and education of women, is an essentialist notion based on Western individualism, one that excludes the experiences of men and women of nonwestern/communal cultures. Critically examining psychological literature of women's self-esteem and Korean self-esteem literature, I argue that to provide more appropriate pastoral care and education for Korean women, it is necessary to understand what and how their concept of the person is formed in a Korean communal context.
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Korea National Statistical Office, 2001. Since 1970, there has not been any year that has balanced birth rate. The highest unbalanced year was 1990 with 116.5 and the lowest was 1973 with 104.6.
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Boyung Lee is Assistant Professor of Educational Ministries at Pacific School of Religion at the Graduate Theological Union.
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Lee, B. Caring-self and Women's Self-esteem: A Feminist's Reflection on Pastoral Care and Religious Education of Korean-American Women. Pastoral Psychol 54, 337–353 (2006). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11089-005-0004-z
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