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Age and Gender Differences in the Associations of Self-Compassion and Emotional Well-being in A Large Adolescent Sample

Journal of Youth and Adolescence volume 46, pages 840–853 (2017)Cite this article

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Adolescence is a challenging developmental period marked with declines in emotional well-being; however, self-compassion has been suggested as a protective factor. This cross-sectional survey study (N = 765, grades 7th to 12th; 53 % female; 4 % Hispanic ethnicity; 64 % White and 21 % Black) examined whether adolescents’ self-compassion differed by age and gender, and secondly, whether its associations with emotional well-being (perceived stress, life satisfaction, distress intolerance, depressive symptoms, and anxiety) also differed by age and gender. The findings indicated that older females had the lowest self-compassion levels compared to younger females or all-age males. Self-compassion was associated with all emotional well-being measures, and gender and/or age moderated the associations with anxiety and depressive symptoms. Among older adolescents, self-compassion had a greater protective effect on anxiety for boys than for girls. Additionally, older adolescents with low and average self-compassion had greater levels of depressive symptoms than those with high self-compassion. These results may inform for whom and at what age self-compassion interventions may be implemented to protect adolescents from further declines in emotional well-being.

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This study was funded in part by North Carolina Translational and Clinical Research Institute (awarded to Dr. Bluth) and by NICCH/NIH T32AT003378-04 (for Dr. Campo).

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KB conceived of and designed the study, directed data collection, and coordinated and participated in drafting the manuscript; RC conducted statistical analyses, interpretation of data, and participated in drafting the manuscript; WF and SG participated in data collection and drafting the manuscript. All authors read and approved the final manuscript.

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Bluth, K., Campo, R.A., Futch, W.S. et al. Age and Gender Differences in the Associations of Self-Compassion and Emotional Well-being in A Large Adolescent Sample. J Youth Adolescence 46, 840–853 (2017). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10964-016-0567-2

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Keywords

  • Self-compassion
  • Emotional well-being
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Perceived stress
  • Distress intolerance
  • Mindfulness