Participant Characteristics
Of the 17 Indian immigrant men in the study, 75% were younger than 35 years, with a mean age of 29, and over half (53%) had resided in NYC for 6 years or less (mean: 4 years). The mean length of residence for the other 47% was 12 years. Professionals made up 54% of the sample, and service providers 30%. The participants had earned graduate credentials in India, and 70% of them also had been or then were graduate students in the US.
Social Capital
Trust
Sixty-five percent of the participants reported a trusting relationship with their peers. They confided personal problems to those peers who were personally familiar with the same adjustment process that they were undergoing. They met their peers, who were primarily Indian immigrants of similar age and SES, through mutual friends. They socialized with their peers after work and during weekends and holidays. This emotional closeness (“someone can understand me”) fostered trust in their peers to give them practical advice for personal difficulties.
Twenty-four percent of participants mentioned a total distrust of Indian coworkers. The competitiveness they faced in getting and keeping jobs, especially in the service industries, contributed to the participants’ distrust in their equally competitive peers. Twelve percent of the participants who were struggling to get a job reported they distrusted other Indians. The reasons cited as of Indian community people’s inquisitiveness into other’s matters (see Table 1).
You know, it’s kind of contradictory, I mean. NYC to me is very small, even though it’s so big. Because you can run into so many Indian people that you would think you’d never meet again. Especially, within the Indian community, you’ll see certain groups at almost every same function/festivals. And then, you know, everyone will know who I am and who my friends are! Like, “oh, yeah, so and so hangs out with this group.” (Communications professional, 32)
Table 1 Indian immigrant men respondents reporting social capital in their community (N = 17) (Selected item
s)
Reciprocity
Seventy-one percent of the participants reported reciprocity as their mutual concern in peer relationships. As one mentioned the reason: “I’m little scared because if I get sick, you know, I have to go to the doctor myself. Who else can I ask to come with me?” (Receptionist, 31). The emotional connection provided “togetherness” and the expectation that peers would offer reciprocal help in this adjustment process. Twenty-four percent of the participants wished they could help each other more, but recognized that the busy life in NYC often did not allow them to do so.
But in New York, it’s very, very busy life—you don’t have one minute to think about other people. Because you are so involved or so busy or life is so strenuous that you don’t even give a damn to others, you know. (Health professional, 29)
Within-Community Connectedness
Fifty-nine percent of the participants revealed that they did not feel a sense of belonging to the Indian community. “I feel, I am
not
included in the group. You know it when you are not accepted in the group. They won’t tell you but you know it.” (Blue-collar worker, 29) They linked their disconnection to the social class structure that prevailed in NYC. As one cab driver [32] disclosed: “Indians are very class-conscious–same here as they were in India.”
For these men, wealth was a distinct marker of social status that accentuated a divide between long-ago and more recent immigrants. Community definitions of “success” influenced social relations among community members.
The new Indians are now coming in, they might not have the same kind of education level and I can definitely see them being looked down upon by the older generation or people who are more, have the respect, more of “respected” professions.
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I see a lot of “discrimination” over here in New York. I would say, class system or social class system of some sort. The Indian bankers over here look down upon the Indian cab drivers, for example. (Computer engineer, 29).
The participants informed of separate organizations that Indian immigrants have in NYC for each of Indian states (like Gujarat, West Bengal, Andhra Pradesh). Furthermore, they also have several sub organizations formed on the basis of religious affiliations. No participants were dues-paying members of any community organizations. Only 18% followed religious rites. Thirty-five percent attended the India Independence Day parade. Eighty-two percent of the sample participated in ethnic festivals to enjoy being around customary Indian dress, food, and language and to meet women. However, they participated as members of their peer groups, not out of a strong sense of belonging to the Indian immigrant community as a whole.
Acculturative Stress Factors
Social Isolation and Loneliness
Fifty-nine percent of the participants attributed their feelings of loneliness to social isolation from the Indian immigrant community in NYC. As a health care professional explained, when Indians first come to the US, “they come here to work and make dollars, dollars, and dollars. So, in the beginning, say one year, they just see dollars. But after making some money, then they start life—start thinking where we are now.” Loneliness, however, was not linked to missing family in India. Although geographically apart, all participants maintained regular contacts with their families in India via telephone, e-mail, postal mail, and visits. Often by taking part in family decisions and sending money, the participants felt connectedness and a sense of belonging to the family.
The participants related two reasons for feeling lonely. Community pressure to “succeed” expectations was one reason. The other, as a cab driver pointed out, is social isolation: “Money is not the issue here. If I want to take a day off, I can take, but I have nothing to do at home, and you go crazy around home. So, it’s better to be in work, that’s why I’m working seven days.” Loneliness, however, was not only limited to peer relations. “Every human being eventually finds somebody who is special for him or her [meaning life partner]. So that process also goes on, and that will solve the loneliness too” (see Table 2).
Table 2 Indian immigrant men respondents reporting psychological distress (N = 17) (Multiple responses)
Hopelessness and Frustration
Seventy-one percent of the participants self-reported feelings of frustration, which they attributed primarily to the following sources. (1) Participants’ frustrations towards peers concerned the experiences of struggling members who had lost hope in their prospects for future accomplishment. These experiences most negatively impacted the feelings of self-efficacy held by service workers, followed by professionals and finally students. Learning from their peers’ experiences, the participants increasingly doubted their own ability to succeed in the US, especially in the current economic and political situation. Detrimental influences of peer norms upon social relationships included substance abuse and sometimes, sexual HIV risk behaviors. (2) Participants felt that if they did not have girlfriends, the community looked down upon them as personal and professional failures. Working long hours did not allow them enough time to socialize with women. They were also hindered by common attitudes among Indians that dating is associated with marriage, and young women should not casually “talk” with men. In addition, the participants reported, women themselves judged a man’s suitability on the basis of his social class.
Indian women want all—handsome men, big house, social status. How could a recent immigrant who is struggling to build up his career have all these right away? They [meaning women] don’t even talk to cab drivers. (Construction worker, 32)
Feelings of Personal Failure and Depression
Eighteen percent of the participants—students, service workers, and professionals reported two reasons for feeling depressed. First, they understood that they would not be able to fulfill the “American dream” that originally drew them to the US. They considered themselves “failures” and blamed themselves for “incompetence.” As a construction worker [32] mentioned: “Time is hard now—few good jobs, so many people out there—it is hard to make money now. I am talking about big money, you know.” Second, they could not discuss their sense of failure with coworkers. The resulting feeling of isolation often led them to drink alcohol and engage in other sexual risk behaviors.
Anxiety and Job Stress
Seventy-one percent of the participants described their work environment as stressful and disclosed that they kept distant from their coworkers. The primary reasons were distrust, anxiety, and a sense of helplessness arising from the perception of lacking control over the future. They felt subordinated, as their employers could decide “who is to do what and for how long” and “handed it down to us.” In this controlling sort of work environment, being a recent immigrant hindered a participant’s hiring prospects, salary, and freedom from employer expectations of unpaid work or excessive job responsibilities. The participants preferred to work for Americans rather than Indian employer. Indian bosses expected unquestioning gratitude in return for hiring them and demanded unpaid work during weekends. Some participants reported that Indian employers gave preferential treatment to workers from their region of India, religion, or other subgroup.
Substance Use/Abuse
Alcohol was the drug of choice for all participants (N = 17), whether they were students, service workers, or professionals. Beer and wine were the favorite drinks for 94%, and hard liquor, especially rum and vodka, for 29%, mainly service workers and professionals. Although drinking at home and in clubs was equally preferred, students and professionals socialized and drank at bars or local restaurants during weekends. Service workers, however, generally used alcohol in their apartments.
Students, service workers, and professionals also differed in their moods at time of alcohol use, as well as in the contexts and extent of use. Although 82% described alcohol as a way to relax and socialize, the different SES groups experienced different stress-related emotions in association with drinking. Hopelessness about the future, boredom, and workplace-related tensions were the reasons service workers gave for drinking. Alcohol was a way to forget their emotional distress. This was also why 41% of them drank and became intoxicated at home. Service workers had the greatest extent of alcohol use, followed by students, then professionals. Participants also mentioned habitual use of alcohol in conjunction with their sexual experiences. Only the students reported occasional use of marijuana and experimentation with ecstasy (the synthetic amphetamine MDMA). No participants reported illegal use of prescription drugs like painkillers.