The Problem with Self-Forgiveness: Forgiving the Self Deters Readiness to Change Among Gamblers
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Self-forgiveness is generally understood to be a mechanism that restores and improves the self. In the current study, we examine the possible deleterious consequences of forgiving the self among gamblers—specifically in regard to gamblers’ readiness to change their problematic behavior. At a large Canadian university, 110 young adult gamblers’ level of gambling pathology was assessed, along with their readiness to change and self-forgiveness for their gambling. Participants were 33 females and 75 males (2 unspecified) with a mean age of 20.33. Results revealed that level of pathology (at risk vs. problem gamblers) significantly predicted increased readiness to change. Self-forgiveness mediated this relationship, such that level of gambling pathology increased readiness to change to the extent that participants were relatively unforgiving of their gambling. Implications for seeking professional assistance as well as treatment and recovery are discussed.
KeywordsGambling Forgiveness Self-forgiveness Readiness to change Transtheoretical model
This research was supported by a research grant from the Ontario Problem Gambling Research Centre (#2345) to Michael J. A. Wohl.
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