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Failing to Meet the Good Parent Ideal: Self-Stigma in Parents of Children with Mental Health Disorders

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Self-stigma detracts from the wellbeing, self-esteem, and social connectedness of adults with mental health disorders. Although emerging research has indicated that self-stigma may have similar consequences for parents of children with mental health disorders, currently we lack a comprehensive description of how parents experience self-stigma. To address this, we investigated parents’ lived experiences of self-stigma using a descriptive qualitative approach. Directed by interview questions informed by a parent-based participatory action research group (n = 4), we conducted individual semi-structured interviews with 12 parents of children (aged 5–13) diagnosed with emotional and/or behavioural disorders. Data obtained from interviews with 11 mothers was coded and thematically analysed. Five themes were found: (1) the ‘good parent’ ideal, (2) awareness of external stigma, (3) outcomes of external stigma (social avoidance and self-doubt), (4) self-stigma (believing self-doubt and external stigma), and (5) refuting self-stigma. Our findings show that parents of children with mental health disorders experience self-stigma. However, because it leads to a diminished sense of being a good parent, the self-stigma is of a different type to that which has been described for adults with mental illness. This has important implications for the conceptualisation and assessment of parent self-stigma as research in this area moves forward.

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The authors would like to extend their sincerest gratitude to the parents who contributed to this research. The insight into your experiences is valued greatly.

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  1. School of Psychology, University of Western Australia, M304, 35 Stirling Highway, Crawley, WA, 6009, Australia

    Kim Eaton, Jeneva L. Ohan & Werner G. K. Stritzke

  2. Illinois Institute of Technology, Chicago, IL, USA

    Patrick W. Corrigan

  3. National Consortium on Stigma and Empowerment, Chicago, IL, USA

    Jeneva L. Ohan & Patrick W. Corrigan

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Eaton, K., Ohan, J.L., Stritzke, W.G.K. et al. Failing to Meet the Good Parent Ideal: Self-Stigma in Parents of Children with Mental Health Disorders. J Child Fam Stud 25, 3109–3123 (2016). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10826-016-0459-9

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Keywords

  • Self-stigma
  • Stigma internalisation
  • Parent
  • Child
  • Mental illness
  • Blame
  • Shame