Abstract
Gender nonconforming children are at heightened risk for negative parenting interactions. This study investigated possible explanations for differences in parenting behaviors with gender conforming and nonconforming boys. A sample of 201 adults (43% women/57% men; 81% White, 10% Black/African American, 6% Multiracial, 3% Asian, and 1% American Indian or Alaska Native; and 7% Hispanic/Latinx) ranging in age from 20 to 74 years (M = 35.44, SD = 9.76) were presented two vignettes describing a gender conforming and nonconforming boy. Following each vignette, participants provided endorsements of parenting behaviors and reported their concern for that child’s future. In addition, participants completed measures assessing their attitudes toward homosexuality and need for closure. Contrary to expectations, there were no significant differences in endorsements of physical discipline or positive parenting for the two boys. Participants did, however, report higher concern for the gender nonconforming boy’s future. Individual differences in homonegativity were associated with greater endorsements of physical discipline toward the gender nonconforming boy, after accounting for endorsements of physical discipline toward the gender conforming boy. Further, higher concern for the gender nonconforming boy’s future was associated with greater endorsements of physical discipline and lower endorsements of positive parenting, after accounting for endorsements of each behavior for the gender conforming boy as well as concern for their future. Intervention efforts to support the parent–child relationship for gender nonconforming boys may benefit from identifying and responding to both negative attitudes toward homosexuality and addressing motivations to change behavior resulting from concern for their child’s future.
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Brian Feinstein was supported by a grant from the National Institute on Drug Abuse (K08DA045575; PI: Feinstein). Kathryn Humphreys was supported by the Jacobs Foundation Early Career Research Fellowship (2017-1261-05) and National Science Foundation (2042285).The content is solely the responsibility of the authors and does not necessarily represent the official views of the funding agency.
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Jacques, K.P., Feinstein, B.A., Darling, A.K. et al. An Analogue Study Investigating Differential Parenting of Gender Conforming and Nonconforming Boys. Arch Sex Behav 51, 3569–3581 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-022-02388-3
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