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Sexual Coercion in Men and Women: Similar Behaviors, Different Predictors

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A growing body of literature supports the contention that both women and men employ various seductive, manipulative, intoxication, and even forceful tactics of sexual coercion to obtain sexual contact from unwilling partners. Although the self-reported coercive behavior of men and women may appear similar in many respects, predictors of such behavior seem to vary in important ways across gender. In addition to examining the prevalence of coercive behaviors reported across gender, the present study examined the extent to which four variables found in models of male sexual coercion predicted self-reported use of sexual coercion in a sample (n = 186) of college men and women: prior sexual abuse, sexual dominance, sociosexuality, and sexual compulsivity. Although prior sexual abuse seemed to be part of a cycle of sexual coercion among both men and women, key predictors of sexual coercion among men were sexual dominance and sociosexuality, whereas the key predictor of sexual coercion among women was sexual compulsivity. These findings support the notion that whereas men may behave coercively to obtain or maintain an impersonal sense of power and control, women may behave coercively to achieve some level of interpersonal connection when feeling out of control.

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Acknowledgments

This research was supported by the Brandeis University Undergraduate Research Program, the Brandeis University Psychology Department, and the University of Massachusetts, Boston Clinical Psychology Program. I gratefully acknowledge Caryn Regen and Jeffrey Vernon for their time and insights during data collection and Joan Liem, David Lisak, and Alice Frye for their guidance and suggestions on the manuscript.

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Unless otherwise noted, the response scale for all items used in the present study was a 5-point scale ranging from 0 (never) to 4 (very often) or 0 (definitely false) to 4 (definitely true). Items that were added to the MASA for the present study are marked with an asterisk.

Sexual Coercion Items

Each sexual coercion tactic was assessed for each of the following forms of sexual contact: sex play (fondling, kissing or petting); oral sex; sexual intercourse (vaginal or anal sex).

Seductive Tactics

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by doing such things as flirting, complimenting them, emphasizing how good it would be, moving my body seductively, or disrobing.*

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by using gentle physical means such as petting, stroking, massaging, tickling, or pinching.*

Manipulative Tactics

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by saying things I thought they wanted to hear (ex. I love you) or making false promises (ex. we’ll stay together).*

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by doing such things as discontinuing all physical activity, moving away from them, refusing to talk to them, or pouting and sulking.*

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by making them feel guilty or jealous by doing such things as crying, questioning their feelings for me, or comparing them to someone else.*

I have tried to persuade an unwilling person to engage in the following sexual acts by doing such things as insulting them, questioning their sexuality, threatening to end the relationship, or threatening to tell others something unflattering.*

Intoxication Tactics

I have done the following sexual acts with a person who was so drunk or high on drugs that they could not object.

I have deliberately given a person alcohol or drugs so that they would not object to my doing the following sexual acts with them that they did not want to do.

Physical Force Tactics

I have used physical force, such as pinning a person against a wall, grabbing, hitting, holding down, or hurting them to try or to succeed at making them do the following sexual acts.

Sexual Dominance Items

It turns me on to think about overpowering someone sexually.

I have become sexually aroused while emotionally manipulating someone.*

I have become sexually aroused by emotionally dominating someone.*

I enjoy dominating someone in a sexual situation.*

Sociosexuality Items

For me, sex without love (impersonal sex) is highly unsatisfactory.* (reverse scored)

Absolute faithfulness to one’s partner throughout life is nearly as silly as celibacy.*

Group sex appeals to me.*

If I were invited to take part in an orgy with people I found attractive, I would probably accept.*

I can imagine myself being comfortable and enjoying “casual” sex with different partners.*

I would have to be closely attached to someone (both emotionally and psychologically) before I could feel comfortable and fully enjoy having sex with him or her.* (reverse scored)

It would be difficult for me to enjoy having sex with someone I did not know very well.* (reverse scored)

I could enjoy having sex with someone I was attracted to, even if I did not feel anything emotionally for him or her.*

Sexual Compulsivity Items

I am not able to control my sexual behavior.

I have not been able to stop myself from a sexual act, even when I wanted to stop.

I have had a problem controlling my sexual feelings.

I have to fight sexual urges.

Sexual feelings overpower me.

I can’t stop thinking about sex.

I have felt an overpowering urge to do a sexual behavior that I had thought about.

Prior Sexual Abuse Items

When I was a child (through age 12), the following people had sexual contact with me:

  • Mother

  • Stepmother

  • Father

  • Stepfather

  • Sister

  • Stepsister

  • Brother

  • Stepbrother

  • Grandmother

  • Grandfather

  • Other relative

  • Friend of parents

  • Babysitter

  • Neighbor (not friend of parents)

  • Some professional person (such as, priest, teacher, doctor, Scout leader)

  • Stranger

  • Girlfriend

  • Boyfriend

  • Friend of mine

When I had sexual contact as a child (through age 12) with [previously endorsed contact] I was willing to have sex.

When I was a teenager (age 13 to 17th birthday), the following people had sexual contact with me: [same options as listed above].

When I had sexual contact as a teenager (age 13 to 17) with [previously endorsed contact] I was willing to have sex.

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Schatzel-Murphy, E.A., Harris, D.A., Knight, R.A. et al. Sexual Coercion in Men and Women: Similar Behaviors, Different Predictors. Arch Sex Behav 38, 974–986 (2009). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-009-9481-y

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