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Filial maturity: Analysis and reconceptualization

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The concept of filial maturity has often been utilized to describe the nature and quality of the adult parent-child relationship. This paper will critically evaluate filial maturity as a central construct for understanding filial relations, present a reconceptualization of the concept, and identify areas for further empirical and conceptual elaboration.

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    Andrew E. Scharlach

  2. School of Social Work, University of Washington, 4101 15th Avenue NE JH-30, 98195, Seattle, Washington

    Karen I. Fredriksen

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Fredriksen, K.I., Scharlach, A.E. Filial maturity: Analysis and reconceptualization. J Adult Dev 3, 183–191 (1996). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF02285778

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