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This paper represents an initial attempt to bring together the literature on neogamy among older persons and to provide a conceptual framework for its understanding. To do so, converging demographic and social factors regarding older persons as they relate to the need for and the expression of intimate relationships are explored. Next the existence and implications of new forms of intimacy among older persons are examined. Finally, some attention is given to the impact of these issues with regard to research, counseling, and public policy.
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Dressel, P.L., Avant, W.R. Neogamy and older persons. Alternative Lifestyles 1, 13–36 (1978). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF01081969
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